"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Masturbation, Porn, and Fantasies

amazingswayze

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How do you guys feel about beating off to chicks you'll probably never bang in real life? Is masturbation a bad thing? How much is too much? Does it effect your testosterone?

I've read other peoples opinions on sites like yahoo answers, reddit, etc... but I never got the chance to hear what my SS brothers think about it.

What are your thoughts on all the above?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Huffman

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I've noticed that if I go 5-7 days without I get pretty horny, but after that spike, things settle back to a normal state.
That's very interesting! I read a study which said exactly that; on average testosterone levels have been found to increase for ~7 days and then go back to slightly above normal.
 

Who Dares Win

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I tried any possible habit in terms of masturbation.

I noticed that if I dont masturbate or have sex for more than two weeks then my performances at the gym drop, fapping too much makes me lazy and akward and kills my endurance in sport.

The best result come when I fap once a week usually on weekend for a single time only (more than once make me lazy again), sometime I can do it 5 times a day to the point I no longer need paper.

I also noticed that when Im pushing hard at the gym and even more when I wrestle my desire to fap increase so does my ability to do it without conseguences.

Regarding porn there are some things which really turn me on but hardly would do in real life, and as Espi said sometime a masturbation session happens to be more satisfactory then a real intercourse with a girl.

At some point I was afraid porn made me less sensitive to girls but then manage to get girls I really found attractive and all the problems disappeared, it was the girls not to be that hot not the porn.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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NSX-R

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Moderation is everything.

I fap like once every 10 days. When i'm faping i have low performance,i feel kinda awkward and also a weird massive bad luck . All these for the next 2 days,after it everything is normal again. When i have long time to fap , i have an unmeasurable lust to fck a chick.

Porn is the worst thing you can do to yourself in my opinion. It shuts down everything i your head,not to mention the countless cases of guys that couldn;t operate normaly while doing sex . For me i don't have yet such issues but i don't want to risk it.
 

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I do it once a week or so, usually with my favorite virus free online porn. Helps me sleep better on nights I'm all wound up from the stress of the day.
 
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Daily jerker here. In my 20's I was good for 3-4x's a day. I'm 44 now but can still manage to get in 2 a day, especially when I'm taking testosterone.

I have absolutely no issues with it. I suspect that the suicide rate for men would be even higher if they didn't jerk off. Masculinity has been repressed to the point that there's fewer and fewer outlets for men to express their sexual desires. The further repressed these impulses become, the stronger their appeal to be released. So I'm personally convinced it's GOOD to masturbate.

I go in phases with porn. Eva Carera, Ariella Fererra, and Deuxma are a few of my faves--and I'm convinced I can bang any of them if I simply paid enough.

Oftentimes I'll masturbate to a chick that I have a date with, only to discover that the masturbatory session was far better than actual sex with the chick.
I like this guy here.
 
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