"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Masturbation, Porn, and Fantasies

amazingswayze

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How do you guys feel about beating off to chicks you'll probably never bang in real life? Is masturbation a bad thing? How much is too much? Does it effect your testosterone?

I've read other peoples opinions on sites like yahoo answers, reddit, etc... but I never got the chance to hear what my SS brothers think about it.

What are your thoughts on all the above?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Huffman

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I've noticed that if I go 5-7 days without I get pretty horny, but after that spike, things settle back to a normal state.
That's very interesting! I read a study which said exactly that; on average testosterone levels have been found to increase for ~7 days and then go back to slightly above normal.
 

Who Dares Win

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I tried any possible habit in terms of masturbation.

I noticed that if I dont masturbate or have sex for more than two weeks then my performances at the gym drop, fapping too much makes me lazy and akward and kills my endurance in sport.

The best result come when I fap once a week usually on weekend for a single time only (more than once make me lazy again), sometime I can do it 5 times a day to the point I no longer need paper.

I also noticed that when Im pushing hard at the gym and even more when I wrestle my desire to fap increase so does my ability to do it without conseguences.

Regarding porn there are some things which really turn me on but hardly would do in real life, and as Espi said sometime a masturbation session happens to be more satisfactory then a real intercourse with a girl.

At some point I was afraid porn made me less sensitive to girls but then manage to get girls I really found attractive and all the problems disappeared, it was the girls not to be that hot not the porn.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Moderation is everything.

I fap like once every 10 days. When i'm faping i have low performance,i feel kinda awkward and also a weird massive bad luck . All these for the next 2 days,after it everything is normal again. When i have long time to fap , i have an unmeasurable lust to fck a chick.

Porn is the worst thing you can do to yourself in my opinion. It shuts down everything i your head,not to mention the countless cases of guys that couldn;t operate normaly while doing sex . For me i don't have yet such issues but i don't want to risk it.
 

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I do it once a week or so, usually with my favorite virus free online porn. Helps me sleep better on nights I'm all wound up from the stress of the day.
 
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Daily jerker here. In my 20's I was good for 3-4x's a day. I'm 44 now but can still manage to get in 2 a day, especially when I'm taking testosterone.

I have absolutely no issues with it. I suspect that the suicide rate for men would be even higher if they didn't jerk off. Masculinity has been repressed to the point that there's fewer and fewer outlets for men to express their sexual desires. The further repressed these impulses become, the stronger their appeal to be released. So I'm personally convinced it's GOOD to masturbate.

I go in phases with porn. Eva Carera, Ariella Fererra, and Deuxma are a few of my faves--and I'm convinced I can bang any of them if I simply paid enough.

Oftentimes I'll masturbate to a chick that I have a date with, only to discover that the masturbatory session was far better than actual sex with the chick.
I like this guy here.
 
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