"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Masturbation and Testosterone Levels

Vypros

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Let's clear up the common misconception floating around this place, shall we?

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20060821152148AAWDFl9

http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/?article=anatomy&refid=009

http://joe.endocrinology-journals.org/cgi/content/abstract/70/3/439

http://www.askmen.com/love/dzimmer_100/104_love_answers.html

And an interesting find:

http://www.psychosomaticmedicine.org/cgi/content/full/61/3/280

Any real study done on this (and the information out there IS limited) has shown that the levels of testosterone fluctuations before and after masturbation were INISIGNIFICANT.

What you will find in those links is that REGULAR masturbation is actually HEALTHY and has no real affect on testosterone whatsoever. Keep in mind that word REGULAR, not FREQUENT.

If you masturbate 4 or 5 times a week, you're not killing your testosterone levels. And in fact, it's part of a healthy sexual lifestyle.

If you are cranking it 3 times a DAY you might see a decrease, but if you are only doing it one time a day or a few times a week, you're not going to notice a significant increase or decrease in testosterone.

Just thought I'd clear that up, because people link masturbation with loss of testosterone and loss of libido, and it simply isn't true.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Chase Dat Skuht

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Thanks for this clarification. Good stuff. I was actually curious about this, I had just posted a thread then I saw this. I have never really beat off more then once a day or once in a while so I was confused when I hear to stop completley. I tried this and I didnt benefit so I went back to crankin one out every once in a while. I felt more horny and motivated to go after real girls if i skipped a session.
 

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Well thats great that the "facts" say whatever. But if I don't beat the meat I am way more likely to make **** happen. So I would say even if its all mental its still beneficial not to be playing with yourself often. I mean its pretty difficult not to but if you can manage to not do it for like 4-6 days you will be pretty likely to just start approaching and not even think about it AT ALL. So the facts can say whatever they like but everytime I've tried this, this is what happens.
 

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Thanks Vypros. At least you have showed some facts.

Men wack off and watch porno. ...plain and simple...why are we even discussing this?
 

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rakishness said:
Men wack off and watch porno.
Another interesting point.

With all the talk on this site in being a MAN, why supress one of man's most powerful urges (aside from actual "sex")?

Masturbation only becomes a problem when:

1. You get addicted to it and do it FREQUENTLY (i.e. everyday is getting borderline addicting)

2. You get addicted to PORN, and it hinders your sex life

3. You'd rather do it than have sex with your gf/wife
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Vypros said:
3. You'd rather do it than have sex with your gf/wife
:crackup:

i wonder how that would be solved
 

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bigshot said:
:crackup:

i wonder how that would be solved
lol

You have two options:

1. Quit masturbating entirely until you find yourself wanting her again
2. Dump her and find somebody who can hold your sexual attraction
 

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Vypros said:
Another interesting point.

With all the talk on this site in being a MAN, why supress one of man's most powerful urges (aside from actual "sex")?

Masturbation only becomes a problem when:

1. You get addicted to it and do it FREQUENTLY (i.e. everyday is getting borderline addicting)

2. You get addicted to PORN, and it hinders your sex life

3. You'd rather do it than have sex with your gf/wife
Porn can be beneficial. It shows how much woman love sex.
 

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rakishness said:
Porn can be beneficial. It shows how much woman love sex.
Porn can also be extremely destructive to a marriage/long-term relationship.
 

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So can ANY obsession. What I'm saying is that porn isn't all BAD. Any man says he has NEVER watched a porno is a.....LIAR
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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rakishness said:
Porn can be beneficial. It shows how much woman love sex.
it has it's place

but bro, wat would u rather do?

have sex with ur girl?

or watch some girl that doesnt even kno that u exist bang some other dude on screen?
 

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Nah. I'm just know when someone is is trying to BS me. LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Vypros said:
Let's clear up the common misconception floating around this place, shall we?

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20060821152148AAWDFl9

http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/?article=anatomy&refid=009

http://joe.endocrinology-journals.org/cgi/content/abstract/70/3/439

http://www.askmen.com/love/dzimmer_100/104_love_answers.html

And an interesting find:

http://www.psychosomaticmedicine.org/cgi/content/full/61/3/280

Any real study done on this (and the information out there IS limited) has shown that the levels of testosterone fluctuations before and after masturbation were INISIGNIFICANT.

What you will find in those links is that REGULAR masturbation is actually HEALTHY and has no real affect on testosterone whatsoever. Keep in mind that word REGULAR, not FREQUENT.

If you masturbate 4 or 5 times a week, you're not killing your testosterone levels. And in fact, it's part of a healthy sexual lifestyle.

If you are cranking it 3 times a DAY you might see a decrease, but if you are only doing it one time a day or a few times a week, you're not going to notice a significant increase or decrease in testosterone.

Just thought I'd clear that up, because people link masturbation with loss of testosterone and loss of libido, and it simply isn't true.
First off all none of these links are scientific. They are just based on feminised articles and fact-pinions. Feminists and left wing universities like to promote jerking off because it makes men less aggressive. Furthermore, links to internet articles prove nothing.

I just don't agree with any of this ****. Even professional boxers don't have sex before their fights. The fact is, even a small in decrease in testosterone is enough to make you weaker. Lastly testosterone isn't the only chemical envolved. Dopamine levels are also affected. Low levels of the neurotransmitter dopamine may lead to depression. This is the exact problem that most AFCs have. They jerk off way too much and as a result are very depressed and not motivated enough to go after women.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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00Kevin said:
First off all none of these links are scientific. They are just based on feminised articles and fact-pinions. Feminists and left wing universities like to promote jerking off because it makes men less aggressive. Furthermore, links to internet articles prove nothing.

I just don't agree with any of this ****. Even professional boxers don't have sex before their fights. The fact is, even a small in decrease in testosterone is enough to make you weaker. Lastly testosterone isn't the only chemical envolved. Dopamine levels are also affected. Low levels of the neurotransmitter dopamine may lead to depression. This is the exact problem that most AFCs have. They jerk off way too much and as a result are very depressed and not motivated enough to go after women.
Please explain to me why this site:

http://joe.endocrinology-journals.org/cgi/content/abstract/70/3/439

is not scientific.

Secondly, please explain why you think that women are out to get men.

Thirdly, please post links proving your side of the arguement or else exit the thread.

I have posted links, you have not.

Credibility goes a lot further when you have something backing up what you say.
 

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have sex with ur girl?

or watch some girl that doesnt even kno that u exist bang some other dude on screen?
Depends. Sometimes the latter
 

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Vypros said:
Please explain to me why this site:

http://joe.endocrinology-journals.org/cgi/content/abstract/70/3/439

is not scientific.

Secondly, please explain why you think that women are out to get men.

Thirdly, please post links proving your side of the arguement or else exit the thread.

I have posted links, you have not.

Credibility goes a lot further when you have something backing up what you say.
The **** you posted is of no value to draw the conclusion you are making here.

I pointed out a major hole in your argument and you have yet to address it . Do you really think that testoserone is the only chemical affected by jerking off? If it isn't then how can you or any of those articles draw such conclusions?

Do a google search on your own again in the same way you found those links but this time consider ALL the chemicals that are affected before you draw a conclusion.

Otherwise exit this thread and go back to jerking off you AFC
 

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00Kevin said:
Otherwise exit this thread and go back to jerking off you AFC
I love it when you talk dirty like that.

lol

What other chemicals are you referring to? Get me some links. I never claimed to be a guru on this, but a simple google search has proven that the prevailing idea is that testosterone levels are not affected by masturbation, which is a prevailing thought among this community.

If other chemicals are affected, please put them on the table and we'll discuss it.
 

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Wacking off too much can be FATAL, that made me stop immediately, I haven't wacked off in two months,
http://www.herballove.com/library/resource/overmas/fatal.asp

Also after watching The Departed when the old killer guy said , he never understood that about watching porno, because he gets so much p***y.
so I felt embarrased, also
Rion Williams saying about the effect chicks have when wearig to much make up to stimulate us just like soft porn.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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