"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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masturbating 3 to 5 times a day.

Mr. Unique

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LOL! dont laught, but is it healthy? probably not but ive been masterbating alot each day because ive got nothing to do here. you see, I just moved here in little rock and I dont know anyone or anywhere cool to hang out. Im waiting for school in a week but anyway ive been jerking it alot. No joke. and I wanna know if its healthy, unhealthy, or REALLY unhealthy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Skilla_Staz

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I can't talk about the medical aspect, but the mental aspect, its unhealthy.


I feel like a loser when I do it two days in a row, so much so that I usually delete all my porn.

Go out and DO something. Jacking off because you're bored? Wow. C'mon man.
 

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I'm in your same exact situation: I've just moved to a smaller city where there's nothing interesting to do, so I end up masturbating 3-5 times a day (personal record is 7 if I don't mistake), waiting for the weekend, when I go to sleep by my girlfriend in my old town.

I don't think there's nothing wrong with it; even in the past, there were times when I masturbated so much and my game was not affected at all.
 

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Masturbating is kinda like drinking, you can do it a little or you can do it a lot, as long as it doesn't interfere with other things, it's not too bad, and as long as it isn't a substitute too much and you don't use it as a crutch. 5 times a day isn't going to kill you so there's not really a huge reason that you shouldn't, but it's still a good indication that you should find something better to do with your time. It sounds like you're just doing it right now because at the moment there isn't a whole lot else that you can do, but just make sure that it doesn't prevent you from doing things that are available.

It's also like drinking in that you shouldn't do it while driving... :D
 
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