"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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masturbating 3 to 5 times a day.

Mr. Unique

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LOL! dont laught, but is it healthy? probably not but ive been masterbating alot each day because ive got nothing to do here. you see, I just moved here in little rock and I dont know anyone or anywhere cool to hang out. Im waiting for school in a week but anyway ive been jerking it alot. No joke. and I wanna know if its healthy, unhealthy, or REALLY unhealthy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I can't talk about the medical aspect, but the mental aspect, its unhealthy.


I feel like a loser when I do it two days in a row, so much so that I usually delete all my porn.

Go out and DO something. Jacking off because you're bored? Wow. C'mon man.
 

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I'm in your same exact situation: I've just moved to a smaller city where there's nothing interesting to do, so I end up masturbating 3-5 times a day (personal record is 7 if I don't mistake), waiting for the weekend, when I go to sleep by my girlfriend in my old town.

I don't think there's nothing wrong with it; even in the past, there were times when I masturbated so much and my game was not affected at all.
 

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Masturbating is kinda like drinking, you can do it a little or you can do it a lot, as long as it doesn't interfere with other things, it's not too bad, and as long as it isn't a substitute too much and you don't use it as a crutch. 5 times a day isn't going to kill you so there's not really a huge reason that you shouldn't, but it's still a good indication that you should find something better to do with your time. It sounds like you're just doing it right now because at the moment there isn't a whole lot else that you can do, but just make sure that it doesn't prevent you from doing things that are available.

It's also like drinking in that you shouldn't do it while driving... :D
 
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