Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ok, this thread is for all master djs and moderators to collaborate together and list their favorite threads.
does not matter how old or new they are.

just find the link and copy and paste it and post it in this thread.

the purpose of this thread, is to help the newer djs find more material that is useful and suitable to them.
not all of them can properly use the search button, and not all of them are familiar with some of the golden threads out there because they are old.

one new guy searches for the word "love" because he doesn't know to search for the word "oneitis" and the results are certainly not the same.

some members have no clue that one thread they pulled up to read was written by someone who had no clue what they were talking about while another thread they passed up, was full of what they needed to read.

if we all contribute to this thread, the newer members can then go off in search of other articles by going on the main page to look up articles and hall of fame or to the bottom of this page to the bible.

so everyone find at least one GOLDEN MUST READ and share it on this thread.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've probably forgotten a bunch, but here's some that really stick out for me:

Sir_Chancealot's Advanced Sexual Techniques
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=16888

Juggler Workshop Review & Lay Report
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=23562

Keys to Don Juan
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16417

...and just because it's the most bizarre (and funniest) thing I've ever seen on here...

A DJ Theory: Mathematically Proven!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=51916
 
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We should have another section for these threads.

like a "best of" section...
 
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rAFC's, Aspiring DJ's, and guys just looking to pull more tail...

Read these sooner than later.

Apply what you read to your past, present, and future experiences; stop and seriously consider what you've read, then get right to hating women.

Yes, hate women.

Endulge, as it will be virtually unavoidable. "Wear the grudge like a crown", as Tool would say.
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Rock the hate styles and get it out of your system.

Then, get quickly past the misogyny and be leaps-and-bounds closer to the ultimate DJ mindset.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=32713

Take a break, then visit part two.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=53921

And, for the priority punchline, take a puff on this...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=83096

*tips hat to Deep Dish*
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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keep em coming guys...
this is going to be a nifty collaboration right when we are done.
 
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I'm gonna go ahead and say my favorites have to be 4 certain threads in the archive section.

1. "Smoothest thing you ever said to a woman"- Extremely entertaining and triumphant
2. "Most Obvious Come On that was Missed"- Just straight up hilarious...and sad.
3. "Your Most AFC Move"- Very sad, a what not to do list
4. "Most Pathetic Attempt at Kinesthetics"- Another what not to do list
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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We should have another section for these threads.

like a "best of" section...
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Almost like some sort of "Archive" for the best threads . . . :)

Not a lot of epic speeches or neat tricks, but these two are very cool slices of life:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=75091

(Slickster is currently still with the girl at the end.)

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=85237

And did anybody post this?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1218016#post1218016
 
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Obsidian said:
umm, isn't this already called the Bible?

btw, The Natural Order of Things should be in the Bible.
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actually regular members don't get a say so in what is bible material.
i mean, we could give a thumbs up and some rep points and mention on the post that it is worthy, but isn't that picking and choosing left up to allen and the mods?
some of the posts that are favorites of ours, might not be in the bible, they are floating out in the archive.

a newbie could pm other members and ask whats good for me to read?
one person will say start with the bible, and a few people will say pook.
in my own opinion, i like antidump's stuff lots more than pook's.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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