hello, my name is Esco and I'm a newbie
I found this site last week and read the Bible, especially Pook's Be a Man and it has changed my life
now the reason I came on here in the first place is because of this one Jessica
here's the interesting and intriging situatuion
-she was in my graduating class at High School and had a boyfriend, but we only knew each other a little bit, however, she seemed to be on to me for the last coupla months
Then we graduate and she goes off to US Santa Cruz, then I get her Phone # through a mutual friend and give her ( a really good girl) a call
now this was mid-January and she was single due to her BF dumping her a month prior and we go out to Denny's really late at night
first we catch up on things and this and that, later we make out and cuddle
from then on she'd come back like every other weekend from UC and we'd go out and blah, blah blah
I really like her and she really likes me (that's what she told me anyways) so I'm super happy
then, in the beggining of April I ask her about a relationship and she says that the time isn't right and she doesn't want to deal with a long distance realtionship
I say ok and that I understand, then she comes back we kiss and cuddle and everything's straight, until I turn all clingy and wussy and tell her that I need her to make up her mind, we have a long talk and then don't talk for like 3 days, then she ignores like 3 of my phone calls, by then I break myself down and this and that.
then she calls me and tells me that we can only be friends FOREVER and I'm not right for her all of a sudden
Of course I'm devastated but I play it off as cool and then tell her that we'll talk later and I have to finish up my essay
for the next 2 days I can't eat or sleep (she was so special) and then I can't stop thinking about her
her best friend goes to the gym with me and I asked her for advice (we go waaay back) and she tells me that they talked and my special girl thinks that everything's fine between us
so now I'm in a friendship zone and it's been over two weeks since she called me and told me all this stuff.
not only that but now I have to make a transition from being something way more than just friends to being just friends. wtf??
between that I've had 2 dates and my life has been going great as I feel a maturity and the little DJ in me but I can't stop thinking about her
What should I do??
Call her??
wait for a call from her???? Just give it time?
Or is it really over?
Help a former AFC and a newbie!!!!!!
I found this site last week and read the Bible, especially Pook's Be a Man and it has changed my life
now the reason I came on here in the first place is because of this one Jessica
here's the interesting and intriging situatuion
-she was in my graduating class at High School and had a boyfriend, but we only knew each other a little bit, however, she seemed to be on to me for the last coupla months
Then we graduate and she goes off to US Santa Cruz, then I get her Phone # through a mutual friend and give her ( a really good girl) a call
now this was mid-January and she was single due to her BF dumping her a month prior and we go out to Denny's really late at night
first we catch up on things and this and that, later we make out and cuddle
from then on she'd come back like every other weekend from UC and we'd go out and blah, blah blah
I really like her and she really likes me (that's what she told me anyways) so I'm super happy
then, in the beggining of April I ask her about a relationship and she says that the time isn't right and she doesn't want to deal with a long distance realtionship
I say ok and that I understand, then she comes back we kiss and cuddle and everything's straight, until I turn all clingy and wussy and tell her that I need her to make up her mind, we have a long talk and then don't talk for like 3 days, then she ignores like 3 of my phone calls, by then I break myself down and this and that.
then she calls me and tells me that we can only be friends FOREVER and I'm not right for her all of a sudden
Of course I'm devastated but I play it off as cool and then tell her that we'll talk later and I have to finish up my essay
for the next 2 days I can't eat or sleep (she was so special) and then I can't stop thinking about her
her best friend goes to the gym with me and I asked her for advice (we go waaay back) and she tells me that they talked and my special girl thinks that everything's fine between us
so now I'm in a friendship zone and it's been over two weeks since she called me and told me all this stuff.
not only that but now I have to make a transition from being something way more than just friends to being just friends. wtf??
between that I've had 2 dates and my life has been going great as I feel a maturity and the little DJ in me but I can't stop thinking about her
What should I do??
Call her??
wait for a call from her???? Just give it time?
Or is it really over?
Help a former AFC and a newbie!!!!!!