"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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massive test,dunno if i handled it well

ye yeah

Don Juan
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i got into an argument with an a-wh0re on msn,interesting to see u guy's responces,the argument was for something as little as me being annoyed at her for saying some stuff to me while she was drunk,and she tried to engage me in a full out argument,and i didnt buy in at all

i just said "yeah" and "ohh k fair enough" and acted as if i had no care whatsoever,and she took the test to the extremes and convo ended like this..

her-you act like your so much better than everyone else
her-you think your so big
me- im not gonna engage in this when ive done nothing wrong
her-you know what,f6ck off =]
me-see ya later
her-you know what,never talk to me again wh0re
her-adios


then i didnt reply lol,i got quite cut as i used to like this girl,and we r meant to be friends lol,playing it cool and acting as if u dont care,certainly gets at them,but do they come crawling back? did i handle this well?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kurt the KJ

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You didn't act nearly immaturely enough. There was nothing funny or interesting about that conversation. I have done reading on persuasive arguments, and when one takes place it can really be an amusing experience. Perhaps this is an area in your game which you need to work on.
 

jigga23

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dude you did fine. i was with a b1tch like yours for almost 2 years. in the beginning she would say the same sh!t to me. sometimes i would just act indifferent and tell her im done with her, which i really meant. then i wouldnt call her for like a week or whatever and she would crack and call me. she would pull the same sh!t of being friends and me thinking im better than everyone. youll lose if you contact her first gurantee. so dont contact her first and youll win gurantee
 

ye yeah

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ohh ok thanks for the replys,sounds like the way to go i'll wait till she contacts me 1st,i just cant believe the level some girls will sink to,to get attention from a guy who seems indifferent and dosent care,its deadset pathetic lol,and open to minipulation haha
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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