"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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massive test,dunno if i handled it well

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ye yeah

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i got into an argument with an a-wh0re on msn,interesting to see u guy's responces,the argument was for something as little as me being annoyed at her for saying some stuff to me while she was drunk,and she tried to engage me in a full out argument,and i didnt buy in at all

i just said "yeah" and "ohh k fair enough" and acted as if i had no care whatsoever,and she took the test to the extremes and convo ended like this..

her-you act like your so much better than everyone else
her-you think your so big
me- im not gonna engage in this when ive done nothing wrong
her-you know what,f6ck off =]
me-see ya later
her-you know what,never talk to me again wh0re
her-adios


then i didnt reply lol,i got quite cut as i used to like this girl,and we r meant to be friends lol,playing it cool and acting as if u dont care,certainly gets at them,but do they come crawling back? did i handle this well?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You didn't act nearly immaturely enough. There was nothing funny or interesting about that conversation. I have done reading on persuasive arguments, and when one takes place it can really be an amusing experience. Perhaps this is an area in your game which you need to work on.
 
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dude you did fine. i was with a b1tch like yours for almost 2 years. in the beginning she would say the same sh!t to me. sometimes i would just act indifferent and tell her im done with her, which i really meant. then i wouldnt call her for like a week or whatever and she would crack and call me. she would pull the same sh!t of being friends and me thinking im better than everyone. youll lose if you contact her first gurantee. so dont contact her first and youll win gurantee
 
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ohh ok thanks for the replys,sounds like the way to go i'll wait till she contacts me 1st,i just cant believe the level some girls will sink to,to get attention from a guy who seems indifferent and dosent care,its deadset pathetic lol,and open to minipulation haha
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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