"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Massive eye contact.. but didn't approach..

Grimple

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So I was at this little festivle thing last night. (My mom actually let me go out, but once I got home she grounded me >:F) but anyway.. I was there and I was with my two friends. They are kind of more popular than me, got good. Good looking blah blah. I was well dressed, my face is average I guess. And my hair is pretty long.. which some girls don't like.. mostly the ones we always approach (the gorgeous preppy ones) ahaha. So I was tired of basically being ignored by these 8-9s, so I started to go over to the music section. Where I would feel more at home, it's where like the cute punk rock girls hang out, or anyone else really into music. I noticed a girl from my school, who kept looking at me. She is probably like a 7.5 her face could be better, but she has a nice body.. anyway, she was eyeing me the whole night. And what of the times we held it for like atleast 2-3 seconds. I was going to approach her, but I couldn't think of anything. PLus, it was pretty loud, and the only way to hear someone is to get close and yell it into their ear.. But anyway, I know where she hangs at lunch kinda, do you think I should talk to her. Or did I already come off as AFC from not approaching her at the festivile? I just don't know what to say. I was thinking something like "Hey, I saw you at the festivle this weekend. Why were you staring at my butt so much?" or idk. i feel like my game is slipping away pfft
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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scribblec

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the loud thing is an advantage, gives u a chance to practice kino
 

Badmannaz

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approach her when you see her and be like "yea saw you at the event" talk about the event and talk to her a little bit...don't ask for her number...just say i'll see you again...if you do this...that will add points to you...girls love guys who are different and mysterious...
 
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