"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Title gives a pretty good hint. Here's the problem: I'm going to be a senior, and I've pretty much been the Nice Guy, AFC, you know the drill. I am in the Friend Zone with every girl there. No, that isn't an exaggeration, pretty much every girl at an age I would fell comfortable approaching already knows me, either by actually meeting or through rep (even if I do try flirting with them, it hasn't really helped during the year). On the bright side, it makes it easy to be friends with them, but nothing more, since they automatically know my rep.

So, does school starting up again help get out of the mega-friend zone or not? How can I launch myself out? WTF do I do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hang out more with your male friends. Give your female friends less time. Disappear from their radar for a little while--not too long so you get out of touch, but just long enough to build up some mystery.
 
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start hanging out with dudes.
 
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