"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mass Friend Zone

Rodge

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The Title gives a pretty good hint. Here's the problem: I'm going to be a senior, and I've pretty much been the Nice Guy, AFC, you know the drill. I am in the Friend Zone with every girl there. No, that isn't an exaggeration, pretty much every girl at an age I would fell comfortable approaching already knows me, either by actually meeting or through rep (even if I do try flirting with them, it hasn't really helped during the year). On the bright side, it makes it easy to be friends with them, but nothing more, since they automatically know my rep.

So, does school starting up again help get out of the mega-friend zone or not? How can I launch myself out? WTF do I do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Evzone

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Hang out more with your male friends. Give your female friends less time. Disappear from their radar for a little while--not too long so you get out of touch, but just long enough to build up some mystery.
 

Conquer

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start hanging out with dudes.
 
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