"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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anonymous12345

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Sometimes when applying for jobs I have the concern of picking something that suits my identity, at the risk of sounding silly. For instance, HR is an example of not, one serves those that do something of substance. Hence typically women in that role.

That’s why I have an inclination for STEM roles, you work your “bricks.” A silent world, you build your stuff, make money. I am wary of for instance being a retail bank advisor. Pampering people in need, doing a rather standard sales job. I think women would like that job.

Am also wary about managerial roles, writing reports (serving) stakeholders up, like a b… But many men work those roles. I’m clearly a noob here.

Anyhow, no one wants to work, and where’s the paradise anyway.

This thread is relevant:
https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/interviewing-for-a-job-is-as-dystopian-as-dating.276851/
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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