"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sometimes when applying for jobs I have the concern of picking something that suits my identity, at the risk of sounding silly. For instance, HR is an example of not, one serves those that do something of substance. Hence typically women in that role.

That’s why I have an inclination for STEM roles, you work your “bricks.” A silent world, you build your stuff, make money. I am wary of for instance being a retail bank advisor. Pampering people in need, doing a rather standard sales job. I think women would like that job.

Am also wary about managerial roles, writing reports (serving) stakeholders up, like a b… But many men work those roles. I’m clearly a noob here.

Anyhow, no one wants to work, and where’s the paradise anyway.

This thread is relevant:
https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/interviewing-for-a-job-is-as-dystopian-as-dating.276851/
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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