"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sometimes when applying for jobs I have the concern of picking something that suits my identity, at the risk of sounding silly. For instance, HR is an example of not, one serves those that do something of substance. Hence typically women in that role.

That’s why I have an inclination for STEM roles, you work your “bricks.” A silent world, you build your stuff, make money. I am wary of for instance being a retail bank advisor. Pampering people in need, doing a rather standard sales job. I think women would like that job.

Am also wary about managerial roles, writing reports (serving) stakeholders up, like a b… But many men work those roles. I’m clearly a noob here.

Anyhow, no one wants to work, and where’s the paradise anyway.

This thread is relevant:
https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/interviewing-for-a-job-is-as-dystopian-as-dating.276851/
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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