"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sometimes when applying for jobs I have the concern of picking something that suits my identity, at the risk of sounding silly. For instance, HR is an example of not, one serves those that do something of substance. Hence typically women in that role.

That’s why I have an inclination for STEM roles, you work your “bricks.” A silent world, you build your stuff, make money. I am wary of for instance being a retail bank advisor. Pampering people in need, doing a rather standard sales job. I think women would like that job.

Am also wary about managerial roles, writing reports (serving) stakeholders up, like a b… But many men work those roles. I’m clearly a noob here.

Anyhow, no one wants to work, and where’s the paradise anyway.

This thread is relevant:
https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/interviewing-for-a-job-is-as-dystopian-as-dating.276851/
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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