"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PEACEDJ

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hey I have been a taking taekwondo for about 5 years now i have been to the nationals qualified as 2nd place blah, blah, blah. My main point. I am in very healthy and good shape about 5'7 and 135, which can be my concern. I know that i'm skinny, even though i have muscles and you can see them clearly I just want to be a lil bit more bulked up around the waist. I don't want to be a heavy weight 200lbs man, because of my weight division class that i'm sparring in. Is there anyway for me to getting a bigger waist w/o gaining too much lbs?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You can do heavy lifting without raising calories. You will gain strength, a little development, but won't gain the mass.
 
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