"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Marrying/LTRing successful women

Lexington

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I thought it would be interesting to get a discussion going on this topic. What are people's thoughts on the level of education and money that a woman should bring to the table relative to the man?

I'm talking about LTR material here. Obviously if you just want to boink a girl for the night, the requirements may be quite different.

Should to woman be a stay at home Mom? Should she be at home and do the household chores, and raise the kids?

Should a woman have an easy career (e.g. teacher, receptionist)? Or should she have a pretty solid career (e.g. MBA, engineer, lawyer, doctor, successful entrepreneur etc.)?

How would you feel about marrying or long-term dating a woman who is considerably more successful than you? What if she makes twice or more compared to you?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bokanovsky

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For what it's worth, statistics show that upper and upper-middle class married couples are less likely to divorce then their lower class counterparts.
 

sodbuster

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If they make too much, they are a pain in the ass. My ex was an accountant who made 1/3 of what I did. She still thought she ruled the world...YMMV
 

evan12

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women admit their sexual desire get less when they make more than the man because they feel they have more power than him .
for me I prefer a "stay at home mom" , the much woman depended on the man the much she put in the relationship and less likely look for divorce.
also women with no /low income are more feminine.
 

Burroughs

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Whatever money and property a woman brings into a relationship she will not spend on joint items...she considers that *hers*

Oddly enough she also considers your money *hers*

apparently men are too stupid as a whole to comprehend this or they just don't care. :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Die Hard

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Reminds me of that guy on here who once had an affair with a woman who was a CEO or some other high level job. She would let him drive her Jaguar and he would use it to pick up other girls, lol.

Who was that?
 

goodfoot

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evan12 said:
women admit their sexual desire get less when they make more than the man because they feel they have more power than him .
for me I prefer a "stay at home mom" , the much woman depended on the man the much she put in the relationship and less likely look for divorce.
also women with no /low income are more feminine.
But a SAHM won't be one when you're dating her, unless it's someone else's. She has to have some kind of job.
 
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