"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Marrying/LTRing successful women

Lexington

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I thought it would be interesting to get a discussion going on this topic. What are people's thoughts on the level of education and money that a woman should bring to the table relative to the man?

I'm talking about LTR material here. Obviously if you just want to boink a girl for the night, the requirements may be quite different.

Should to woman be a stay at home Mom? Should she be at home and do the household chores, and raise the kids?

Should a woman have an easy career (e.g. teacher, receptionist)? Or should she have a pretty solid career (e.g. MBA, engineer, lawyer, doctor, successful entrepreneur etc.)?

How would you feel about marrying or long-term dating a woman who is considerably more successful than you? What if she makes twice or more compared to you?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bokanovsky

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For what it's worth, statistics show that upper and upper-middle class married couples are less likely to divorce then their lower class counterparts.
 

sodbuster

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If they make too much, they are a pain in the ass. My ex was an accountant who made 1/3 of what I did. She still thought she ruled the world...YMMV
 

evan12

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women admit their sexual desire get less when they make more than the man because they feel they have more power than him .
for me I prefer a "stay at home mom" , the much woman depended on the man the much she put in the relationship and less likely look for divorce.
also women with no /low income are more feminine.
 

Burroughs

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Whatever money and property a woman brings into a relationship she will not spend on joint items...she considers that *hers*

Oddly enough she also considers your money *hers*

apparently men are too stupid as a whole to comprehend this or they just don't care. :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Die Hard

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Reminds me of that guy on here who once had an affair with a woman who was a CEO or some other high level job. She would let him drive her Jaguar and he would use it to pick up other girls, lol.

Who was that?
 

goodfoot

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evan12 said:
women admit their sexual desire get less when they make more than the man because they feel they have more power than him .
for me I prefer a "stay at home mom" , the much woman depended on the man the much she put in the relationship and less likely look for divorce.
also women with no /low income are more feminine.
But a SAHM won't be one when you're dating her, unless it's someone else's. She has to have some kind of job.
 
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