"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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051AV

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Ya I've made a few posts back to back in the last week or so.

Anyhow have you guys ever had married women stare at you with that I guess you would call it dreamy look? Or they are doing the hair twirl and giving you the look. I think to myself naw I'm not interested in banging you, there's too much baggage and drama that tags along with you.

Its happening to me fairly regularly with women I know that are married, I know they don't mean any thing by it but why do it? They that bored in their marriage they are thinking of somebody else.

I really don't like the thought of phucking up someones marriage, I don't flirt with married women I always keep it basic. They try flirting with me I don't give them any reaction, I don't need to stroke your ego.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bigneil

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Dating a married person is extremely painful for everyone involved.

Every time you make love to her, she breaks your heart. She cheats on you every day. Or she divorces him and that's a huge mess too. Avoid them if you can (that means don't marry them also), unless you both truly love one another more than anything, in which case you better be really strong for a long time.
 

Masculinity

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Ya I've made a few posts back to back in the last week or so.

Anyhow have you guys ever had married women stare at you with that I guess you would call it dreamy look? Or they are doing the hair twirl and giving you the look. I think to myself naw I'm not interested in banging you, there's too much baggage and drama that tags along with you.

Its happening to me fairly regularly with women I know that are married, I know they don't mean any thing by it but why do it? They that bored in their marriage they are thinking of somebody else.

I really don't like the thought of phucking up someones marriage, I don't flirt with married women I always keep it basic. They try flirting with me I don't give them any reaction, I don't need to stroke your ego.

They do mean something by it; they may be looking for validation, flirtation, novelty, sex, attention, or a combination of these and/or other things.
 

mrgoodstuff

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F*cking married women has never been worth the hassle.
The guys who know how to do it have LESS of a hassle. They let the husband worry about financial and emotional support. He simply uses her for degrading sex and sends her home to hubby for hubby to take care of her. I'm not down with supporting this system but once a hubby realize this is the game being played he should be more than happy to pack her stuff and move it to the affair partners house in boxes himself!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wifehunter

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Don't mess with the Lord, unless you hate yourself.:p
 

AlphaNate

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The guys who know how to do it have LESS of a hassle. They let the husband worry about financial and emotional support. He simply uses her for degrading sex and sends her home to hubby for hubby to take care of her. I'm not down with supporting this system but once a hubby realize this is the game being played he should be more than happy to pack her stuff and move it to the affair partners house in boxes himself!
That's not how this works. That's not how any of this works.
 
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