You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
i have to disagree.. i think that married women may be easer simply because MOST married women are not saturated with single men at bars/clubs/etc. and when they are they appreciate the attention (in some cases).MacAvoy said:Its a very easy question.
First answer, based on numbers alone, they are harder to game because the majority are not openly on the market and their mind isn't in search mode.
Second answer, if you come across a women thats showing signs, then she's likely easier to game because she's probably searching and on the market. Which makes it easier to game than the typical women who may or may not be on the market.
So to answer your question, it all depends if she's looking for a side piece or not.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
And depends on how long they have been married... ie. newly weds are hard to F... but after 1 year they are back to hoing in many cases.. but you have to be able to offer them something their husband cant...Francisco d'Anconia said:Depends on whether they're happily married or not.
Jesus Christ, did you read what you just wrote?everywomanshero said:Depends. I really mostly only try for married ones or those with a serious bf. If I find out a girl is single I usually leave her alone because I don't want any drama.. unless I know for sure the woman is just wanting to get dirty, I steer totally clear of them. That probably makes me ill-advised on the matter.
very few women are truely single ... so i understand his point...stand said:Jesus Christ, did you read what you just wrote?
You don't want DRAMA -- so you stay away from SINGLE girls, but try messing with MARRIED women?
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
bluemanson said:i think you should. we all know that they talk about sex with each other so why not LOL, especially if she giving you smiles. maybe she wants a good time, no strings attached lol
It is not as strange as it may seem.You don't want DRAMA -- so you stay away from SINGLE girls, but try messing with MARRIED women?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I have to agree especially whith "in the moment" women are all about the moment... In a single moment of lust or hodom or what ever all their morals can be tossed out.. that is why we should judge a woman by her actions not her words..bluemanson said:i think there is a 50/50 chance, To me it doesnt matter if she maried recently or long married, if you can offer the woman what she needs at that moment i dont how you not get a fvck from her,
well i think you just got to get her alone, test the waters with her. see if she wants to, you just never know, Im trying with this girl at tech, she married but damn she fine. giving me all the signals but we email each other at work but when i email something like " lets leave work and go to the beach or something" then she says she just cant. i told her she chicken LOL,Kingpin SkinnyPimp said:Well, for example, today she came over and started talking. And I said jokingly "I'm getting transferred over to your department"
And she smiled and said "come on over I could use you over here"
I just smiled and said "nah I'm good over here" and she walked away.. LOL..
Plus the married woman lives close to my town.. how could I go and sarge her?