ValleyDJing
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Bone her bro. One more step towards immortality! :rockon:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
married women?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
The world can easily do without these things when it comes to marriage. Wedding shops, cake makers, some churches, photographers, wedding planners and the like is all fluff and have no bearing on the quality of a marriage yet they all are looked upon as if it were a blessing from the Pope.speakeasy said:
Worried about competition?speakeasy said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Good analysis, that is pretty much the norm. I'd also add to #3 that even if there doesn't seem to be any warning signs what so ever, it typically means that they haven't discussed the important stuff yet.backbreaker said:
Married women give the best sex, usually they sleep with you because they are not getting laid at home. So when you get them in bed there are no restraints. They jump in, bite your nipples, ask you to pull their hair when you f*ck them from behind.
Who cares if their married every good DJ is a bit of a narcissist (or a lot). If her husband is half the man you are she wont be sucking your d*ck, she'd be sucking his.
When a woman says the magic words "sorry i'm married" I cant help but smile because I know soon I will be having some great sex.
Who cares if their married every good DJ is a bit of a narcissist (or a lot). If her husband is half the man you are she wont be sucking your d*ck, she'd be sucking his.
When a woman says the magic words "sorry i'm married" I cant help but smile because I know soon I will be having some great sex.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
TheHumanist
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I'm not gonna say too much about the marriage thing is, everything I would say is said, though this is definately one of the more cynical threads. Cynically, the risk and rewards says to largely avoid, sure the little strings attached, but the risk is alot of drama and so on and everyone know the moral thing.
I just want to say about the karma that it is also based on motivations. So the reason why the nice guy paying for everything, worshiping her, and all that crap doesn't work is because, like everyone said, his motivations (desperate and needy) will not win good karma. Sure it says doing good things will bring good things back, but being a fake desperate suck up isn't exactly called good is it?
I just want to say about the karma that it is also based on motivations. So the reason why the nice guy paying for everything, worshiping her, and all that crap doesn't work is because, like everyone said, his motivations (desperate and needy) will not win good karma. Sure it says doing good things will bring good things back, but being a fake desperate suck up isn't exactly called good is it?
Someone Much cooler
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As much as i box and do martial arts, the last thing i need is some jealous guy and his 8 boys lookin to slash my face open cause I piped his shorty.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
fuzzx said:
I guess simply existing at the whim of another country would make me pretty bitter too.
Hey everybody! Did you know they have a Canadian Indepedence Day?! lol!
jackofasses
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Once again, not YOUR right to **** up someones marriage. Honestly, that's some serious bull**** right there.
If she's really not satisfied or happy it's her responsibility to leave the husband or talk to him about it. You say that "how would you like it?" is a weak argument but honestly.. what if you spend all your time looking for that plate that spins faster than all the others. You actually decide to get married. You're with her, you're happy, maybe you even let your guard down a little and stop being a complete ignorant ****head. You own a house, have a baby, the works. Maybe one day she gets curious about wanting to try something or someone else. Maybe a certain predatory friend of yours, or even a stranger starts making passes at her on a day when she's not at her 100% and so she goes and ****s him.
Sure, she's a ho.. but the ****head who was out cruising her is just as much of a ****head for doing it and you damn well know it. So why are so many of you in this thread BEING that ****head?
If she's really not satisfied or happy it's her responsibility to leave the husband or talk to him about it. You say that "how would you like it?" is a weak argument but honestly.. what if you spend all your time looking for that plate that spins faster than all the others. You actually decide to get married. You're with her, you're happy, maybe you even let your guard down a little and stop being a complete ignorant ****head. You own a house, have a baby, the works. Maybe one day she gets curious about wanting to try something or someone else. Maybe a certain predatory friend of yours, or even a stranger starts making passes at her on a day when she's not at her 100% and so she goes and ****s him.
Sure, she's a ho.. but the ****head who was out cruising her is just as much of a ****head for doing it and you damn well know it. So why are so many of you in this thread BEING that ****head?
Bump. The main thing I tell myself is if I were married someday, I wouldn't want this to happen to me. According to this thread that could be considered AFC-logic.
I don't know how to respond when a hot married chick pursues me. I tell myself it's wrong but she's a chick and I'm a guy and we're both acting like normal human beings. I'm much better at self-control than I used to be, but it's not like you can turn this stuff off.
First time this has really come up. The potential negatives (being murdered) still seem to outweigh the positives.
I don't know how to respond when a hot married chick pursues me. I tell myself it's wrong but she's a chick and I'm a guy and we're both acting like normal human beings. I'm much better at self-control than I used to be, but it's not like you can turn this stuff off.
First time this has really come up. The potential negatives (being murdered) still seem to outweigh the positives.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DonGorgon
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Yeh but there is no way to stop it... as long as your wife is above a 3 in looks men will be trying to f her and eventually she will let one do it in most cases the women will find a way to blame you for it too...LOL Only solution dont get married.reset said:
Problem solved, I won't get married therefore I don't have to respect other people's marriages, now, lol.
Then you figure, yeah she's going to cheat with anyone. If she's acting this way towards me, then that's in her. Unless I am such an amazing DJ that she acts this way with no other men and I am just bringing this out of her.
I am being pursued. I am not seeking this out. But now it's in my face my minds getting a little screwy.
It's a game to chicks. Sometimes I think men have more of these moral questions than men do. Chicks just do whatever the hell they feel like.
Then you figure, yeah she's going to cheat with anyone. If she's acting this way towards me, then that's in her. Unless I am such an amazing DJ that she acts this way with no other men and I am just bringing this out of her.
I am being pursued. I am not seeking this out. But now it's in my face my minds getting a little screwy.
It's a game to chicks. Sometimes I think men have more of these moral questions than men do. Chicks just do whatever the hell they feel like.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Not that I advocate cheating while in a marriage or pursuing a married woman yourself but being pursued by a married woman is an entirely different event. It still may not be for everyone because of the particular moral code but you can learn a ton about what women really want by "engaging"reset said:
a woman who in unhappy in her marriage.DonGorgon
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Others will do what they want regardless of what you do or dont.... but yeh women seldom really give a damn... They just pretend to alot...reset said:
FVCK. you guys obviously aren't going to think my thoughts for me and tell me if it's ok.Francisco d'Anconia said:Not that I advocate cheating while in a marriage or pursuing a married woman yourself but being pursued by a married woman is an entirely different event. It still may not be for everyone because of the particular moral code but you can learn a ton about what women really want by "engaging"
Maybe I should just enjoy the ego boost. No plates to married woman is pretty weak.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DonGorgon
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If you dont f her someone else will...reset said:
Well it's not like they are going to stop making them.DonGorgon said:If you dont f her someone else will...
Does EVERY SINGLE CHICK try to make you jealous in order to get a reaction from you? I used to think that was a sign of low-quality but now I'm just thinking it's the way it is when you don't slobber over yourself--jealousy is the first card they pull out.