"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NeedToImprove

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i just have one question. Why cutting off all contact and saying i have my marriage daughter and my husband to take care when earlier they were totally into a guy? conversations were great, sex also.

is there a woman ese meaning for that?


if her husband was so important why getting in the sack with another man in the first place and getting emotionally involved (yeah i got emotionally involved too and i think ive been used and that pisses me off).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NeedToImprove said:
i just have one question. Why cutting off all contact and saying i have my marriage daughter and my husband to take care when earlier they were totally into a guy? conversations were great, sex also.

is there a woman ese meaning for that?


if her husband was so important why getting in the sack with another man in the first place and getting emotionally involved (yeah i got emotionally involved too and i think ive been used and that pisses me off).
because she can! she wanted to taste freedom and another c0ck, she did, she knows she behaved sluttily and now cutting you off and declaring her need to take care of her provider (husband) and offspring, absolves her of any wrongdoing. it never happened.
 

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betheman said:
because she can! she wanted to taste freedom and another c0ck, she did, she knows she behaved sluttily and now cutting you off and declaring her need to take care of her provider (husband) and offspring, absolves her of any wrongdoing. it never happened.
should i call her on off on her bull**** or just ignore the ****?
 

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it makes me think these *****es after getting what they want always go back to their providers like nothing happened. same with offspring, their kids will always be their priority.

lesson learned

i'm tired of being screwed over and over. it sucks being used and i dont feel like i have the strenght to get to know another woman with all the bad **** going on in my life atm: death of my father, depression, unemployed
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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actually, did you WANT her and her kids, as your wife? if not, quit *****ing. you knew the score from the start, you got some, it probably cost you very little money, you didn't have to worry about getting her pregnants, so what's the problem. ? if you got emotionally invested in someone who has such obvious other interests (and you KNEW about them) then you screwed up. Any pain you are feeling, you brought upon yourself.
 

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NeedToImprove said:
i just have one question. Why cutting off all contact and saying i have my marriage daughter and my husband to take care when earlier they were totally into a guy? conversations were great, sex also.

is there a woman ese meaning for that?


if her husband was so important why getting in the sack with another man in the first place and getting emotionally involved (yeah i got emotionally involved too and i think ive been used and that pisses me off).
You're having sex with a married woman...what did you think was going to happen? You thought she was going to leave him for you? You sound like a chick.
 

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Too late, too late. If you were going to do something you should of done it when she first stuck her hand down your pants. You would of told her to go home to her family and that would of been that. But since you banged her you now have feelings for her while she wants to erase all that happened.

In all honesty, SHE is the one doing the best thing for both of you. Forget the romp ever happened, null the feelings, go NC and be on your merry way. Nothing good will come of this if you want anything more.
 

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NeedToImprove said:
i just have one question. Why cutting off all contact and saying i have my marriage daughter and my husband to take care when earlier they were totally into a guy? conversations were great, sex also.

is there a woman ese meaning for that?


if her husband was so important why getting in the sack with another man in the first place and getting emotionally involved (yeah i got emotionally involved too and i think ive been used and that pisses me off).
You think she's going to risk her value and image and brand for one night of sex? Come on bro, she has a family and that's worth more than anything. She got what she wanted, that's it, she doesn't owe you anything, you are nothing.

Rather than all the great conversations and being totally into you, have her SPEND MONEY on you. Departing with her money is WAY more important than giving up her body to you or anything she says.

But man, I don't know how you guys game so fast and have sex, yet believe so much out of their mouths.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Im sure the poor husband is one of those guys who thinks HIS wife would never ever do this! she pobably told him she has only ever been with a few guys before him and nobody ever made her feel the way he does ;)
 

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betheman said:
because she can! she wanted to taste freedom and another c0ck, she did, she knows she behaved sluttily and now cutting you off and declaring her need to take care of her provider (husband) and offspring, absolves her of any wrongdoing. it never happened.
Agreed.

Best thing you can do is walk away and move on - last thing you want is to push her for more and somehow get the husband involved.
 

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The ones you have to watch out for are the single women who have affairs with married guys.

Those are the girls that are scary.
 
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