"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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NeedToImprove

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i just have one question. Why cutting off all contact and saying i have my marriage daughter and my husband to take care when earlier they were totally into a guy? conversations were great, sex also.

is there a woman ese meaning for that?


if her husband was so important why getting in the sack with another man in the first place and getting emotionally involved (yeah i got emotionally involved too and i think ive been used and that pisses me off).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NeedToImprove said:
i just have one question. Why cutting off all contact and saying i have my marriage daughter and my husband to take care when earlier they were totally into a guy? conversations were great, sex also.

is there a woman ese meaning for that?


if her husband was so important why getting in the sack with another man in the first place and getting emotionally involved (yeah i got emotionally involved too and i think ive been used and that pisses me off).
because she can! she wanted to taste freedom and another c0ck, she did, she knows she behaved sluttily and now cutting you off and declaring her need to take care of her provider (husband) and offspring, absolves her of any wrongdoing. it never happened.
 

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betheman said:
because she can! she wanted to taste freedom and another c0ck, she did, she knows she behaved sluttily and now cutting you off and declaring her need to take care of her provider (husband) and offspring, absolves her of any wrongdoing. it never happened.
should i call her on off on her bull**** or just ignore the ****?
 

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it makes me think these *****es after getting what they want always go back to their providers like nothing happened. same with offspring, their kids will always be their priority.

lesson learned

i'm tired of being screwed over and over. it sucks being used and i dont feel like i have the strenght to get to know another woman with all the bad **** going on in my life atm: death of my father, depression, unemployed
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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actually, did you WANT her and her kids, as your wife? if not, quit *****ing. you knew the score from the start, you got some, it probably cost you very little money, you didn't have to worry about getting her pregnants, so what's the problem. ? if you got emotionally invested in someone who has such obvious other interests (and you KNEW about them) then you screwed up. Any pain you are feeling, you brought upon yourself.
 

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NeedToImprove said:
i just have one question. Why cutting off all contact and saying i have my marriage daughter and my husband to take care when earlier they were totally into a guy? conversations were great, sex also.

is there a woman ese meaning for that?


if her husband was so important why getting in the sack with another man in the first place and getting emotionally involved (yeah i got emotionally involved too and i think ive been used and that pisses me off).
You're having sex with a married woman...what did you think was going to happen? You thought she was going to leave him for you? You sound like a chick.
 

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Too late, too late. If you were going to do something you should of done it when she first stuck her hand down your pants. You would of told her to go home to her family and that would of been that. But since you banged her you now have feelings for her while she wants to erase all that happened.

In all honesty, SHE is the one doing the best thing for both of you. Forget the romp ever happened, null the feelings, go NC and be on your merry way. Nothing good will come of this if you want anything more.
 

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NeedToImprove said:
i just have one question. Why cutting off all contact and saying i have my marriage daughter and my husband to take care when earlier they were totally into a guy? conversations were great, sex also.

is there a woman ese meaning for that?


if her husband was so important why getting in the sack with another man in the first place and getting emotionally involved (yeah i got emotionally involved too and i think ive been used and that pisses me off).
You think she's going to risk her value and image and brand for one night of sex? Come on bro, she has a family and that's worth more than anything. She got what she wanted, that's it, she doesn't owe you anything, you are nothing.

Rather than all the great conversations and being totally into you, have her SPEND MONEY on you. Departing with her money is WAY more important than giving up her body to you or anything she says.

But man, I don't know how you guys game so fast and have sex, yet believe so much out of their mouths.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Im sure the poor husband is one of those guys who thinks HIS wife would never ever do this! she pobably told him she has only ever been with a few guys before him and nobody ever made her feel the way he does ;)
 

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betheman said:
because she can! she wanted to taste freedom and another c0ck, she did, she knows she behaved sluttily and now cutting you off and declaring her need to take care of her provider (husband) and offspring, absolves her of any wrongdoing. it never happened.
Agreed.

Best thing you can do is walk away and move on - last thing you want is to push her for more and somehow get the husband involved.
 

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The ones you have to watch out for are the single women who have affairs with married guys.

Those are the girls that are scary.
 
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