Married woman interested in me......*slightly* interested but also horny due to inaction lately

[peanutbuttablunts]

have one plate that's in the bag for sure, but she's married. seems like shes ready for NSA, but idk, I only have one solid fwb at the moment with several prospects but idk...do you guys think this is likely to trigger a **** storm and is something I should avoid altogether or? again I'm only mildly finding her interesting, but she went out of her way to text me by acquiring my number from a group chat (lol....GG) but idk skept..

 

[Spaz]

Don't be involved with married women, taken women as in fiance or even with women that's in an LTR.

Too much hassle.

If you develop feelings, which is more then likely and if she could cheat on the previous man, she's likely to be doing the same to you. It's a lose - lose either way.

But if you don't catch feelings easily, if she got caught, you get blamed. Of course you'll be accused as the seducer. The breaker of family. Your friends won't trust you with their wife's and even your own family will look down on your poor judgement. And if her husband is the emotional type, just imagine him begging you to leave her alone. And then imagine if he's the dominant type, you'd get whacked in some dark alley...

Choose wisely.

 

[peanutbuttablunts]

Great advice. yeah you're right. the temptation was probably why the situation was born in the first place. I didn't actually want her. we go to the same school, and have mutual friends. (one of them is a vet that has a *****-crush on another vet in the circle...that's another story though...ugh). these are otherwise good people, but I'm starting to see patterns of infidelity...you are one hundred percent right in that last paragraph. I will be seen in a bad light. its true that you never want to be seen as a seducer. its okay if people know you like a girl, but "seducing" is not a good thing imo. theres a total difference between improving oneself and playing these scheming game of picking up women. one should pursue an authentic goal/project, never women.

 

[R.U.G.]

Don't be an adulter. One, would you like that to happen to you if you were in the husbands shoes? Two, if you are a religious person, it's against the G-d. Three, the guy, after he finds out, might shoot you. I know I would.. Right in the balls.

 

[peanutbuttablunts]

You're both a hundred percent right. I got the vibe that she was trying to exit, also. But, as obviously it wouldn't be a good idea, i'm not going to be the guy who does this for her.

 

[jaymbrs]

I recently told my friend that married women are easier to **** than single women these days. Bash me if you want but I've been with 3 married women. All three chased me like there was no tomorrow. It is what it is these days. Which is why I'm 31 and not married.

 

[Spaz]

Its true that married women normally chases men, and it's also true that as a man we have a choice to say no.

It's not a question of morality 4 me. It's just not wanting unnecessary drama in my life, married women always causes drama, sooner or later it always does and it gets worse, they end up blaming you with people believing them. I've gone through it and it's just not worth it.