Married woman grinds up on you...thoughts?

[The LadyKiller]

As the title states, if you're out at a bar/club and a married woman starts grinding up on you, what is the correct course of action?

I was out with some friends last night, and a HB8 and I began talking. However, I noticed a rather large diamond on her ring finger, so presumed things were a lost cause. Later on, our group took to the dance floor and HB8 began grinding up on me. Being a straight male, I enjoyed it and did what I needed to on the dance floor, but didn't take things any further.

Is there a proper protocol for this situation? My aim is to get with single women, not ones with huge rocks on their finger. I don't feel comfortable being the "mister(?)" of somebody's marriage.

 

[cola]

it really is a matter of your own moral compass.
I'll tell you in 2017 a girl being married or even just having a boyfriend means less than sh*t.

I've banged an astonishing amount of women with boyfriends/fiancé/ husbands.
Some i had no knowledge of until after and others I'm not proud to say i was fully aware of.

So being married doesn't disqualify women from getting the D unless you will it so.
If you do decide to have sex with a woman in this situation id advise you to keep it to sex and no emotional connection.

Affairs or trysts with married women can also be dangerous. Many men have lost their lives due to an enraged husband.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

As the title states, if you're out at a bar/club and a married woman starts grinding up on you, what is the correct course of action?

I was out with some friends last night, and a HB8 and I began talking. However, I noticed a rather large diamond on her ring finger, so presumed things were a lost cause. Later on, our group took to the dance floor and HB8 began grinding up on me. Being a straight male, I enjoyed it and did what I needed to on the dance floor, but didn't take things any further.

Is there a proper protocol for this situation? My aim is to get with single women, not ones with huge rocks on their finger. I don't feel comfortable being the "mister(?)" of somebody's marriage.

Oh, this is an easy one.

She is just looking for attention. She wants to know if guys still find her attractive... and then boast the next day how a '20 year old was chasing me!' Smile and move on... nothing to see there.

 

[wifehunter]

Skank

 

[Building_and_Loan]

It's your call obviously, but I'm guessing if a married woman is spending any time out late in the clubs at all, she's probably already cheated on her husband or is looking to cheat.

Maybe she's trying to make her husband jealous or get back at him because he was dancing with girls, maybe he's away on business, maybe it's an open relationship, who knows. The point is proceed with caution.

 

[The LadyKiller]

Oh, this is an easy one.

She is just looking for attention. She wants to know if guys still find her attractive... and then boast the next day how a '20 year old was chasing me!' Smile and move on... nothing to see there.

This is usually my assumption, and I think you're right about it. I know another HB who is married - she flirts all the time and doesn't always wear her ring. However, upon getting to know her a little bit, it's clear that she too simply likes the attention. She's still married.

it really is a matter of your own moral compass.
I'll tell you in 2017 a girl being married or even just having a boyfriend means less than sh*t.

I've banged an astonishing amount of women with boyfriends/fiancé/ husbands.
Some i had no knowledge of until after and others I'm not proud to say i was fully aware of.

So being married doesn't disqualify women from getting the D unless you will it so.
If you do decide to have sex with a woman in this situation id advise you to keep it to sex and no emotional connection.

Affairs or trysts with married women can also be dangerous. Many men have lost their lives due to an enraged husband.

2017 is a different time than even a few years ago. For me, it's only something I would consider it is if she bluntly stated her intention and I don't know the husband. Like you said, there are potential dangers I would rather stay away from.

 

[bigneil]

Have you ever dated a married woman? Have you ever been madly in love with a married woman? They break your heart every time you see them. And you deserved it.

Don't date married women, and especially don't create one.

 

[62Telecaster]

Simple stuff...it's not worth the time/drama to bother. I'vs had plenty of married women go after me, and it's not worth potentially having been the loser to wreck a marriage/split a family/etc...let somebody else be that guy.

You did what you should have, just dance with her for fun and move on when you're done.

 

[nismo-4]

Attention seeker/ beta recruiter. You're not in first place.

Never let your emotions get involved with a girl.

Case closed.

 

[backbreaker]

we were at a party a few weeks ago, my wife's idea and there was this marired chick there who was hipster ish but had a very very nice body and i mean she was cute and she was telling me how she thinks her husband is a homosexual

it was a house party so we had been drinking and i mean my wife is there doing her thing and the song bad and boujee comes on and this hipster girl just comes up to me and grinds her ass all on my **** and was twerking the **** out of that ass i ain't go lie i got hard as **** loll


yeah the misses wasn't too happy about that.

 

[Meektrop]

I'd spit on that wh0res face don't matter how good she looks... one thing I can say about my self with pride is I never fvcked a married woman. I put value on myself

 

[wifehunter]

If I was her husband, I'd be gone and never heard from again.

 

[devilkingx2]

I was out with some friends last night, and a HB8 and I began talking. However, I noticed a rather large diamond on her ring finger, so presumed things were a lost cause. Later on, our group took to the dance floor and HB8 began grinding up on me. Being a straight male, I enjoyed it and did what I needed to on the dance floor, but didn't take things any further.

the fact that she was still wearing the ring is a sign she was probably not DTF, if she was she'd never let you see it