married girl

[vonbock]

A professional colleague invited me out to lunch because I send her many patients. We went out to luch, kept it professional. As I dropped her off, she said, if I am ever free for lunch again call her sometime. Problem is, she is married and her husband works with her in her office because he can't find a job as a lawyer. I enjoyed our discussions and I am really tempted to just have fun with her and not much else. Has anyone been in this situation before?

 

[sodbuster]

Depends on whether or not you'd like a gun stuck in your ear-husbands do some irrational stuff from time to time. There are enough single women out there to keep me away from married women.the only married women MD's I know are real ballbreakers-treat their husbands like sh!&.

As a colleague, does she refer to you? Likely to be able to testify against you in a malpractice case? I've had a female Dentist wind up a patient to try to sue me-just because. I'd never do anything that would cost me too much money[lover scorned could really come back to bite you in the A$$]. Talk is fine,but avoid the rest.

 

[Farmboy]

Define "have fun with her" please.
FB or tennis partner?

Also, how much are you reading into the "call me sometime" stuff?
Did she say it after half an hour of her running her foot up your leg and running her hand up and down her glass or did she say it like she was being friendly and polite?

I'd advise not sh*tting where you eat. Hell, if her husband is the jealous AFC type he might even get bent out of shape over you two having lunch, much less anything else.

 

[Sir_Turtle]

One word should answer your question

MARRIED

DON'T mess with it unless you're prepared for the consequences..

 

[vonbock]

I think most married professional girls know how far their limit is. If they take a referring physician out to lunch, they usually end up by saying "thank you very much for your referrals" They usually don't say "call me sometimes when you are available to go out to lunch again" I was thinking FB. I know professional girls, especially with a broke out of work lawyer husband who is hanging around her office, know how to bust their husband's balls. I think she is fed up with his status.

 

[Your_Royal_Flyness]

One word should answer your question

MARRIED

DON'T mess with it unless you're prepared for the consequences..

Ding Ding! Exactly. It might just be an innocent invite. However, there's also a possibility that she's using you to test her desirability. By agreeing to see her more and by following her like a puppy, she will get an ego boost. Don't give her that power.

Plus, there is no telling what her husband might do if things happened to "go down." I have heard of similar situations where the wife will purposely let her husband find out...some women get a rush off seeing men fight over her. There are over a billion single, eligible vaginas on earth. Leave the married ones alone.

If that married chick approaches you again, give her one of these.

http://www.footballforum.com/photopost/data/2/LT_vs_STL_3.jpg
(joking...but stay away, my dude)

 

[Ganondorf]

I think most married professional girls know how far their limit is. If they take a referring physician out to lunch, they usually end up by saying "thank you very much for your referrals" They usually don't say "call me sometimes when you are available to go out to lunch again"

I got out with this chick at my job to lunch all the time. She's Engaged. She asks me and enjoys eating with me

does she like me....


NO! well...maybe as a friend, but she does not have any romantic interest in me at all. We talk about our relationships, and she's head over heels for her man, believe me.

Don't read into so much. she might have just been being friendly. from your post it shows no other signs of interest were made from her. so THere's your answer right there. don't try to tap the Beatdown Bait

Besides she's married. not a good idea. find your own girl:nono:

 

[Ganondorf]

I was thinking FB. I know professional girls, especially with a broke out of work lawyer husband who is hanging around her office, know how to bust their husband's balls. I think she is fed up with his status.

again, i think your moving a bit too fast here. slow down:yes:

Being nice does not equal attraction. Get the DOES NOT EQUAL part.

stop and think for a second and don't let your attraction for this woman get to your head and cause you to draw crazy conclusions

Like the chick in my post. We have fun, text each other, joke around, talk about sex..

but it's just as friends. she is like one of the guys to me and nothing more. Please take this in too account and realize the boundries. this woman is married, and her husband works with her to boot

don't cross the line and try to fvck her. not only could it turn out weird, but you could loose some job perks as well if she is also helping you with your career.