Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ding Ding! Exactly. It might just be an innocent invite. However, there's also a possibility that she's using you to test her desirability. By agreeing to see her more and by following her like a puppy, she will get an ego boost. Don't give her that power.Sir_Turtle said:One word should answer your question
MARRIED
DON'T mess with it unless you're prepared for the consequences..
I got out with this chick at my job to lunch all the time. She's Engaged. She asks me and enjoys eating with mevonbock said:I think most married professional girls know how far their limit is. If they take a referring physician out to lunch, they usually end up by saying "thank you very much for your referrals" They usually don't say "call me sometimes when you are available to go out to lunch again"
vonbock said:I was thinking FB. I know professional girls, especially with a broke out of work lawyer husband who is hanging around her office, know how to bust their husband's balls. I think she is fed up with his status.