"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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greatsnake

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I’ve been her coworker for the past 5 years. Tell me why she likes hearing about my sexual adventures and gives me subtle sexual messages?.. this lady is married, but she would be my type to Fucx around with.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Who knows what you or she’s fantasizing about, but married and a coworker added together are a huge red flag. Name one positive that could come of making a move on her other than your own fantasy imagined sexual gratification …
 

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Who knows what you or she’s fantasizing about, but married and a coworker added together are a huge red flag. Name one positive that could come of making a move on her other than your own fantasy imagined sexual gratification …
Yeah man, I’ve thought about it! Sucks big time!
 

Billtx49

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Yeah man, I’ve thought about it! Sucks big time!
Yep, but if she’s running her own fantasy on you via the subtle messages and continuing to do so, she’s obviously enjoying the fantasy…
 

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"she likes hearing about my sexual adventures"

Just fyi, when things turn sour between you two, these little chats constitute sexual harassment. You will say she likes it, but good luck proving that if you had to.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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