A&F Brand Cologne
Banned
- Joined
- Dec 8, 2004
- Messages
- 214
- Reaction score
- 0
check the mature forum. some guys in there post about it sometimes.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
married and macking?
- Thread starter A&F Brand Cologne
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Desdinova
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 15, 2004
- Messages
- 11,680
- Reaction score
- 4,874
If you're referring to her as a ball and chain, why the fvck are you married to her? A woman should add happiness to a man's life, not take it away.
I'm married, and I don't consider her a ball and chain. She has decided to join me on the path of life and adventure.
Also, I don't go out and "mack". I go out and I'll initiate conversation with strangers; male, female, old, young. I don't need to go out and keep my game up because at this time I don't need my game. When you're married, you should be married for life. You should be with someone who will enhance your life. If she doesn't enhance your life, then you shouldn't be married to her.
Desdinova
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 15, 2004
- Messages
- 11,680
- Reaction score
- 4,874
Just because your life is 5hit, it doesn't mean everyone elses is.
Show me what's funny about your post and I'll try to laugh.
If you have a ball and chain on your leg, you're not going anywhere. Who's the whipped one? You obviously don't have any respect for your wife if you're referring to her as a burden.
I'm here to help others get their life and attitude together like I have.
So if I'm initiating convo with some guy, I'm macking him?
Because I have good social skills.
Metaphysikal_Lover
Banned
- Joined
- Oct 15, 2004
- Messages
- 143
- Reaction score
- 1
- Age
- 67
Amen brutha!!!!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
if you are a cheat, you are a cheat. you don't need our permission or accolades. how do you feel about yourself, is the question.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Happily married 8.5 years now. In that time I've had 2 opportunities to cheat in complete confidence and I turned both down. It's more than just 'being gentelmanly' or being whipped. It's about cosidering what you stand to lose in the action. I have a 6 year old daughter, if I cheat on my wife I cheat on her too. I have a BFA and a BS in Psychology because my wife was understanding. If I cheat on her I cheat on that too. My wife is 40 and looks better than 98% of the girls I see on campus (no lie) because she wants to stay in shape for me. If I cheat on her I cheat on that perseverance. It's more than just losing half of what you own and this shouldn't be the deterent from cheating anyway.
At 36 I'm a good looking guy, I've had chicks in their 20's come on to me. I don't cheat because not only do I love my wife, but I love what we have together. Is it tough, oh yeah,..is it worth it? Definitely.
What does all of that mean? As a guy, be selective in who you would be willing to spend your life with. I knew (and know) myself well enough to understand that I could never be faithful to a woman who wasn't able to contstantly satisfy my needs sexually and maintain her figure into her 40's and 50's. I know too many guys who think that the most 'shallow' thing that could come out of a guy's mouth, but it's true. I also know the same guys who'd criticize me for saying it (let alone acting on it) are the same ones cheating on their wives now or are trapped in a marriage by their own mental illusions of 'settling' down.
Don't settle. Get what you want or don't commit to anything. Really why would you want to? Too many guys are too willing to put up with a woman for the sake of doing what they think is expected of them. Fvck that, it will only lead to you devastating your own life and the lives of your future children and families and friends in having to deal with a bad decision you made because you didn't want to seem 'shallow'.
At 36 I'm a good looking guy, I've had chicks in their 20's come on to me. I don't cheat because not only do I love my wife, but I love what we have together. Is it tough, oh yeah,..is it worth it? Definitely.
What does all of that mean? As a guy, be selective in who you would be willing to spend your life with. I knew (and know) myself well enough to understand that I could never be faithful to a woman who wasn't able to contstantly satisfy my needs sexually and maintain her figure into her 40's and 50's. I know too many guys who think that the most 'shallow' thing that could come out of a guy's mouth, but it's true. I also know the same guys who'd criticize me for saying it (let alone acting on it) are the same ones cheating on their wives now or are trapped in a marriage by their own mental illusions of 'settling' down.
Don't settle. Get what you want or don't commit to anything. Really why would you want to? Too many guys are too willing to put up with a woman for the sake of doing what they think is expected of them. Fvck that, it will only lead to you devastating your own life and the lives of your future children and families and friends in having to deal with a bad decision you made because you didn't want to seem 'shallow'.