Marriage material?

[Rainman4707]

To the men that are married or intend on marrying. What is about the woman that makes her so special?

 

[Manure Spherian]

To the men that are married or intend on marrying. What is about the woman that makes her so special?

My wife bends over backwards for our children, me, and other family members. We have the same values and outlook on family and marriage.

 

[Rainman4707]

My wife bends over backwards for our children, me, and other family members. We have the same values and outlook on family and marriage.

Whats the ***** like? Best you've ever had?

 

[inquisitor]

Whats the ***** like? Best you've ever had?

It has to be.

 

[Manure Spherian]

Whats the ***** like? Best you've ever had?

Great.

 

[Serenity]

She's genuinely kind and I enjoy being with her.

At the very start of our relationship, from the first date, I went into it with a promise to myself. If she ever tries to bring me down, I'm out. I was doing perfectly fine before I met her, I was already happy in life, it would not take much for me to walk away.

I will stay with her for as long as it's good. I'm still with her because it just keeps getting better and she has never done anything to deserve me walking away from her.

I see you're wondering about sex too, so I'll go into that a little bit as well. At first it was actually very basic, she wasn't good at it at all. She was a virgin when I met her, but more importantly she was willing to learn and try new things. That's why I could tolerate the mediocre sex early on, it kept getting progressively better and to my liking because I was teaching her. I put in that work and I'm reaping the rewards of it today, sex with her is absolutely mind-blowing.

I guess the worst times were the time after each of our kids were born, she needed to heal. I hear a lot of stories about women just shutting down sexually for a long time after having kids, well, not my wife. I'm not sure which one of us were more impatient to fvck, probably her because she sucked my d!ck in the meantime.

As it stands now after 9 years together she's irreplaceable, she's too much of a good thing in my life for any other woman to catch up to and compete with. If for some reason she ever turns bad this would obviously change. If sex dries up I'm out, if she starts disrespecting me I'm out in a hurry, if she grows distant and cold I'm out.

It should be mentioned that unlike many other guys I never grew complacent, I never sat down on my ass and relieved myself of all personal responsibility "because I already made it". I have worked on myself all along and still do, I'm a much higher value man now than the one she met and the one she married. This is my safety net as well, should it all go to sh!t I have everything in order to find sex and companionship elsewhere.

It's really hard to sum up everything that's right about this, but I know there's nobody I could meet tomorrow that could come close to giving me what my wife gives me today.

 

[inquisitor]

She's genuinely kind and I enjoy being with her.

At the very start of our relationship, from the first date, I went into it with a promise to myself. If she ever tries to bring me down, I'm out. I was doing perfectly fine before I met her, I was already happy in life, it would not take much for me to walk away.

I will stay with her for as long as it's good. I'm still with her because it just keeps getting better and she has never done anything to deserve me walking away from her.

I see you're wondering about sex too, so I'll go into that a little bit as well. At first it was actually very basic, she wasn't good at it at all. She was a virgin when I met her, but more importantly she was willing to learn and try new things. That's why I could tolerate the mediocre sex early on, it kept getting progressively better and to my liking because I was teaching her. I put in that work and I'm reaping the rewards of it today, sex with her is absolutely mind-blowing.

I guess the worst times were the time after each of our kids were born, she needed to heal. I hear a lot of stories about women just shutting down sexually for a long time after having kids, well, not my wife. I'm not sure which one of us were more impatient to fvck, probably her because she sucked my d!ck in the meantime.

As it stands now after 9 years together she's irreplaceable, she's too much of a good thing in my life for any other woman to catch up to and compete with. If for some reason she ever turns bad this would obviously change. If sex dries up I'm out, if she starts disrespecting me I'm out in a hurry, if she grows distant and cold I'm out.

It should be mentioned that unlike many other guys I never grew complacent, I never sat down on my ass and relieved myself of all personal responsibility "because I already made it". I have worked on myself all along and still do, I'm a much higher value man now than the one she met and the one she married. This is my safety net as well, should it all go to sh!t I have everything in order to find sex and companionship elsewhere.

It's really hard to sum up everything that's right about this, but I know there's nobody I could meet tomorrow that could come close to giving me what my wife gives me today.

This is beautiful.

 

[Rainman4707]

Happy for you guys, i sincerly hope things stay the same for you both.

 

[Baibars]

She's genuinely kind and I enjoy being with her.

At the very start of our relationship, from the first date, I went into it with a promise to myself. If she ever tries to bring me down, I'm out. I was doing perfectly fine before I met her, I was already happy in life, it would not take much for me to walk away.

I will stay with her for as long as it's good. I'm still with her because it just keeps getting better and she has never done anything to deserve me walking away from her.

I see you're wondering about sex too, so I'll go into that a little bit as well. At first it was actually very basic, she wasn't good at it at all. She was a virgin when I met her, but more importantly she was willing to learn and try new things. That's why I could tolerate the mediocre sex early on, it kept getting progressively better and to my liking because I was teaching her. I put in that work and I'm reaping the rewards of it today, sex with her is absolutely mind-blowing.

I guess the worst times were the time after each of our kids were born, she needed to heal. I hear a lot of stories about women just shutting down sexually for a long time after having kids, well, not my wife. I'm not sure which one of us were more impatient to fvck, probably her because she sucked my d!ck in the meantime.

As it stands now after 9 years together she's irreplaceable, she's too much of a good thing in my life for any other woman to catch up to and compete with. If for some reason she ever turns bad this would obviously change. If sex dries up I'm out, if she starts disrespecting me I'm out in a hurry, if she grows distant and cold I'm out.

It should be mentioned that unlike many other guys I never grew complacent, I never sat down on my ass and relieved myself of all personal responsibility "because I already made it". I have worked on myself all along and still do, I'm a much higher value man now than the one she met and the one she married. This is my safety net as well, should it all go to sh!t I have everything in order to find sex and companionship elsewhere.

It's really hard to sum up everything that's right about this, but I know there's nobody I could meet tomorrow that could come close to giving me what my wife gives me today.

do you think someone is worth marrying that got divorced at a young age and has a very low body count?

 

[Juanto]

She's genuinely kind and I enjoy being with her.

At the very start of our relationship, from the first date, I went into it with a promise to myself. If she ever tries to bring me down, I'm out. I was doing perfectly fine before I met her, I was already happy in life, it would not take much for me to walk away.

I will stay with her for as long as it's good. I'm still with her because it just keeps getting better and she has never done anything to deserve me walking away from her.

I see you're wondering about sex too, so I'll go into that a little bit as well. At first it was actually very basic, she wasn't good at it at all. She was a virgin when I met her, but more importantly she was willing to learn and try new things. That's why I could tolerate the mediocre sex early on, it kept getting progressively better and to my liking because I was teaching her. I put in that work and I'm reaping the rewards of it today, sex with her is absolutely mind-blowing.

I guess the worst times were the time after each of our kids were born, she needed to heal. I hear a lot of stories about women just shutting down sexually for a long time after having kids, well, not my wife. I'm not sure which one of us were more impatient to fvck, probably her because she sucked my d!ck in the meantime.

As it stands now after 9 years together she's irreplaceable, she's too much of a good thing in my life for any other woman to catch up to and compete with. If for some reason she ever turns bad this would obviously change. If sex dries up I'm out, if she starts disrespecting me I'm out in a hurry, if she grows distant and cold I'm out.

It should be mentioned that unlike many other guys I never grew complacent, I never sat down on my ass and relieved myself of all personal responsibility "because I already made it". I have worked on myself all along and still do, I'm a much higher value man now than the one she met and the one she married. This is my safety net as well, should it all go to sh!t I have everything in order to find sex and companionship elsewhere.

It's really hard to sum up everything that's right about this, but I know there's nobody I could meet tomorrow that could come close to giving me what my wife gives me today.

Good template here for a healthy relationship

 

[Serenity]

do you think someone is worth marrying that got divorced at a young age and has a very low body count?

Depends why the divorce happened, like who failed in the marriage, him, her, both? If her, what has she learned since?

I don't really get hung up on body count, if a high body count is the result of something destructive/broken within her it will be obvious in many other ways if you know what to look for.

I wouldn't say I depend on these things to judge a woman, I'd rather stick to judging her values and character. Through proper qualification I'd likely filter them out before even getting far enough to learn their relationship history or body count anyways.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

This is my safety net as well, should it all go to sh!t I have everything in order to find sex and companionship elsewhere.

They is the very important part and key; That you're chick always knows that you are always ready to walk out that door and that you have other options than her (and what other women want to fvck you).
It keeps them on their toes. To main the competition anxiety of women is a important component of every sexual relationship I would argue.

 

[Rainman4707]

Great.

Great i'm happy for you.

My wife bends over backwards for our children, me, and other family members. We have the same values and outlook on family and marriage.

Great, happy for you.

 

[Manure Spherian]

Great i'm happy for you.

Great, happy for you.

Thank you.

 

[SW15]

It's going to be very difficult to find a woman in a Western nation who is going to be a good bet for a marriage.

Most Western marriages will fail before the 20th anniversary.

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[jhonny9546]

A post recently made me reflect on a conversation I had with a friend who "took the red pill" about ten years ago. He's ten years older than me and has been in a relationship with his partner for seven years. What's remarkable is that this woman had never managed to stay in a relationship for more than two or three years before him.
He shared with me the "secret to his success": Always, always, always make her worry.

• If she sends a message, he delays his response. She might get angry, saying he's always busy at the phone with friends but never responds to her. However, she eventually becomes docile.
• If she urges him to hurry up, he makes her wait for 15 to 20 minutes, inventing an excuse. She complains saying they'll be late again, but then becomes docile again.
• If she cooks for him, he occasionally criticizes the food, even if it's not true. She might retort that he could have cooked it himself, but she ends up being docile.
• When she suggests doing something serious, like grocery shopping or planning a trip, he initially resists, teases her, saying things like "Oh today it's the no-man day at the grocery, only women can enter", etc, and only agrees after she begs him after she have an emotional outburst. Then she becomes docile once more.

This dynamic creates a cycle of drama and emotional response. She gets angry because she feels misunderstood, but then becomes docile again, then he often gives in to her requests, sometimes on her terms, sometimes on his own.

He confessed that he's deeply in love but knows he can't show it.
Whenever he feels affection, he reverses it by acting a bit "crazy" or "childish", teasing her in a playful way.
Although this behavior can be annoying and create emotional burst on her, also, making him look childish when in presence of others, it works. Afterward, he becomes serious again.

This experience made me realize that a successful relationship and being with a "marriage material" woman, beyond ensuring a partner doesn't have major red flags, heavily depends on how the man behaves.

Now She is kind to everyone, caring with children, great in bed, takes care of the house, has a good job, good friends, and hobbies. She thrives in this dynamic.