"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Marketing - how to counteract holiday specials?

Mr. Wolf

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I have a little problem.. In the past I talked about my competition from UK, and the guy raised his item by $1.. But now, I'm on the block, I totally obliterated his scheme..

The guy is a major AFC, he's back with the vengeance.. He even blocked me, though I never even talked to him or anything like that..

He dropped from 3.99 price to .99, and in shipped from 4.99 to 3.99.. VS my stuff at 2.99 and 4.99 shipping..



This sux! I need to know how to counter that and break the guy into submission, forcing him to loose money by not making sales.. Each one of his listings costs him close to $40.. So I need to make him not sell this batch, and maybe next time he won't come back..


His DVD is just a regular DVD..


Mine is high resolution, longer, with extra features, chapter menus, and burned onto high quality media that will last for years, VS his, I'm pretty sure cheap media which won't last as long..


What do I need to do to kill the guy?


Is creating a new user name and bidding on his items an option? If done discreetly from another computer and network? Or bad idea, he could do it too?


Also, I can stand behind my product 100% and work with customers from the U.S.. While if there are any returns, to UK, it will cost a leg.. I was thinking sticking into second description something like, NOT A CHEAP KNOCK OFF. Good idea or too negative?

Or how about NOT A CHEAP .99 CENT KNOCK OFF, BETTER, LONGER, EXTRAS. FAST SHIPPING FROM U.S.A...

Hmmm.. I'm going to ruin him.. I'm not into dirty business, but this guys is a playa hater. Please give me advice.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Go with backing your own product, pitching it as having more features, benefits, higher quality, etc. People are willing to pay for quality, and were not talking hundreds of $ here.
 

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Is it a good or bad idea to say things like:


Unlike that item for .99 cents, this one is better.

or

Better than others.



Perhaps I just should stick with only saying good things about my item and not negging others?
 

Mr. Wolf

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Alright, I wrote YOU WON'T GET THIS SAME DVD FOR .99 CENTS, and then I wrote bunch of other things, but positive, and all about raising product's value.. Then I created a bunch of specials for firefighters, lawyers, teachers, judges, I double their order..


We'll see what comes of it..


I also have Spanish, French, and Italian versions coming up.. On those, I'll have total monopoly..
 

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Amateur. Learn the difference between competitors and opponents. You can collaborate with a competitor and both of you can make money, and perhaps even more than you would alone.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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