Tenacity
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
@Solomon likes to start sh*t with people for no reason.
Lol, yeah I've seen that. I think @guru1000 honestly has a lot of these guys fooled on this website, to the point of where if GURU has an issue with a Poster, many of these guys just automatically think the Poster is problematic.@Solomon likes to start sh*t with people for no reason.
All I do is post my opinion. This idiot starts insulting me because he doesn't like a thread I create or my position on a topic lol. What does he CARE with all this "success" anyway?
If I go on the attack.. I'm either attacking the person's position or I'm responding to an insult thrown at me. However.. I don't just go to people's threads and start calling them names like a BPD hoe.
Yeah, there is definitely some political sh*t going on on this forum. I've had that issue with @deesade where we actually agree on stuff, but the guy wants to argue with me anyway.Lol, yeah I've seen that. I think @guru1000 honestly has a lot of these guys fooled on this website, to the point of where if GURU has an issue with a Poster, many of these guys just automatically think the Poster is problematic.
I went through the same issues with @BeTheChange. I would offer him advice, congratulate him on some of the things he's working on, but for some reason that dude has contempt, hatred, and vile towards me and I have no idea why. He also claims he's black, which is even further confusing as to why a black man would hate another black man like that for no reason lol. The ONLY thing I can think of, is Guru has programmed him into doing this. He never disagrees with Guru, challenges Guru, etc.
But I must hand it to Guru, I mean the guy can really "blow smoke" up people's a.sses on here. I guess folks are just gullible, hell I don't know lol.
Excellent point lol! It's just the problem that comes when you speak from your heart or speak the TRUTH as you see it.....the reality is that at some point in time, you are going to be speaking in contrast with "certain people who currently like you" and this might turn them against you lol.Yeah, there is definitely some political sh*t going on on this forum. I've had that issue with @deesade where we actually agree on stuff, but the guy wants to argue with me anyway.
I've also noticed how you often get no credit for your great posts just because you are "Tenacity". However, if another posters says the exact same sh*t, they get 20 likes lol.
Seems people here care less about FACTS and quality content and more about "who" is saying it. Pretty stupid when we often complain about double standards in marriage court, yet we inflict double standards on ourselves. How STUPID is that? LOL.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
@Solomon likes to start sh*t with people for no reason.
All I do is post my opinion. This idiot starts insulting me because he doesn't like a thread I create or my position on a topic lol. What does he CARE with all this "success" anyway?
If I go on the attack.. I'm either attacking the person's position or I'm responding to an insult thrown at me. However.. I don't just go to people's threads and start calling them names like a BPD hoe.
Then put me on ignore jackass.Your threads suck no field reports
corny topics
and nothing new or enlightening
sorry but that's the truth.,.,,,you are keyboard jockey