Tenacity
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
@Solomon likes to start sh*t with people for no reason.
Lol, yeah I've seen that. I think @guru1000 honestly has a lot of these guys fooled on this website, to the point of where if GURU has an issue with a Poster, many of these guys just automatically think the Poster is problematic.@Solomon likes to start sh*t with people for no reason.
All I do is post my opinion. This idiot starts insulting me because he doesn't like a thread I create or my position on a topic lol. What does he CARE with all this "success" anyway?
If I go on the attack.. I'm either attacking the person's position or I'm responding to an insult thrown at me. However.. I don't just go to people's threads and start calling them names like a BPD hoe.
Yeah, there is definitely some political sh*t going on on this forum. I've had that issue with @deesade where we actually agree on stuff, but the guy wants to argue with me anyway.Lol, yeah I've seen that. I think @guru1000 honestly has a lot of these guys fooled on this website, to the point of where if GURU has an issue with a Poster, many of these guys just automatically think the Poster is problematic.
I went through the same issues with @BeTheChange. I would offer him advice, congratulate him on some of the things he's working on, but for some reason that dude has contempt, hatred, and vile towards me and I have no idea why. He also claims he's black, which is even further confusing as to why a black man would hate another black man like that for no reason lol. The ONLY thing I can think of, is Guru has programmed him into doing this. He never disagrees with Guru, challenges Guru, etc.
But I must hand it to Guru, I mean the guy can really "blow smoke" up people's a.sses on here. I guess folks are just gullible, hell I don't know lol.
Excellent point lol! It's just the problem that comes when you speak from your heart or speak the TRUTH as you see it.....the reality is that at some point in time, you are going to be speaking in contrast with "certain people who currently like you" and this might turn them against you lol.Yeah, there is definitely some political sh*t going on on this forum. I've had that issue with @deesade where we actually agree on stuff, but the guy wants to argue with me anyway.
I've also noticed how you often get no credit for your great posts just because you are "Tenacity". However, if another posters says the exact same sh*t, they get 20 likes lol.
Seems people here care less about FACTS and quality content and more about "who" is saying it. Pretty stupid when we often complain about double standards in marriage court, yet we inflict double standards on ourselves. How STUPID is that? LOL.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
@Solomon likes to start sh*t with people for no reason.
All I do is post my opinion. This idiot starts insulting me because he doesn't like a thread I create or my position on a topic lol. What does he CARE with all this "success" anyway?
If I go on the attack.. I'm either attacking the person's position or I'm responding to an insult thrown at me. However.. I don't just go to people's threads and start calling them names like a BPD hoe.
Then put me on ignore jackass.Your threads suck no field reports
corny topics
and nothing new or enlightening
sorry but that's the truth.,.,,,you are keyboard jockey