Market Trend Analysis - Women hate nice men

[Urbanyst]

No sh*t right?

"Women don’t like harmless men; they hate them. They like to claw them apart. What women want are dangerous men who are civilized; and they want to help civilize them. That’s Beauty and the Beast."

http://www.intellectualtakeout.org/article/clinical-psychologist-women-hate-harmless-men

My analysis: Women want a man who is dangerous to others, but not really to her. Once a man becomes dangerous to her, she finds a way to destroy him or take all his MONEY or lock him in jail. Then she will complain how there are no good men, while she keeps all the harmless men as orbiters lol.

The biggest mistake of the modern world is giving lizard brained females power of any kind.

 

[btownbuck2012]

No sh*t right?

"Women don’t like harmless men; they hate them. They like to claw them apart. What women want are dangerous men who are civilized; and they want to help civilize them. That’s Beauty and the Beast."

http://www.intellectualtakeout.org/article/clinical-psychologist-women-hate-harmless-men

My analysis: Women want a man who is dangerous to others, but not really to her. Once a man becomes dangerous to her, she finds a way to destroy him or take all his MONEY or lock him in jail. Then she will complain how there are no good men, while she keeps all the harmless men as orbiters lol.

The biggest mistake of the modern world is giving lizard brained females power of any kind.

I disagree with the idea that you have to be dangerous or "bad" to get women. A better comparison is weak vs. strong. You can be a good man who is strong - mentally, physically and in your dealings with others without being a drain on society.

 

[logicallefty]

No sh*t right?

"Women don’t like harmless men; they hate them. They like to claw them apart. What women want are dangerous men who are civilized; and they want to help civilize them. That’s Beauty and the Beast."

http://www.intellectualtakeout.org/article/clinical-psychologist-women-hate-harmless-men

My analysis: Women want a man who is dangerous to others, but not really to her. Once a man becomes dangerous to her, she finds a way to destroy him or take all his MONEY or lock him in jail. Then she will complain how there are no good men, while she keeps all the harmless men as orbiters lol.

The biggest mistake of the modern world is giving lizard brained females power of any kind.

Getting some photo paper, a picture frame, printing this out, and hanging it on my wall. Outstanding.

 

[lizardking82]

I would rather say they want a man who is capable of being dangerous, but most importantly, who is smart and well connected and passionate about what he does. Gone are the days where you need to know how to fight or hunt to protect your offspring. Women going for the "bad boys" early in their life are just inexperienced and follow their primal instincts, that is all.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I always maintain, you can get away with the worst and the soppiest behaviours; the outcome depends almost entirely on what the true underlying intent is.

Being nice, even sickly-sweet with a girl can work wonders, so long as it's not continuous, and you're not (automatically) expecting to gain anything from it.

There are of course certain things that are just a big no-no, whatever the intent:
-Premature / liberal use of the L-word.
-Texting / calling ten times a day.
-Constant availability.
-Never applying your own terms and conditions.
-'I don't mind, you choose' (poor decision-making / drive).

Otherwise, I don't really live my life by what the internet tells me I can and cannot do.

Things I have done in the recent past, that are classically 'forbidden', and still maintained frame:
-Bought drinks.
-Bought presents.
-Poor body language.
-Paid compliments.
-Sickly sweet, cutesy pleasantries.

I get away with these things because there's no spurious (nice guy) intent nor expectation underpinning the behaviour; and, the other 80-90% of the time, I'm naturally cool calm and collected.

The nice guy is acting in someone else's frame of reference, trying to pass his sexual desires off in the guise of good intentions. The successes of the solid guy and the so-called bad-boy, both arise from self-centredness, and make their intentions crystal clear from the start. This, and only this, is the nice guy issue, in a nutshell.

 

[exhausted]

Women want a strong and convicted man that other girls will be jealous of her having. However when they become exclusive she wants that man to become a beta b**** and run and control everything including him. When this isn't allowed there are problems and then the woman then bails and runs to other orbiters for attention.

 

[Urbanyst]

I always maintain, you can get away with the worst and the soppiest behaviours; the outcome depends almost entirely on what the true underlying intent is.

Being nice, even sickly-sweet with a girl can work wonders, so long as it's not continuous, and you're not (automatically) expecting to gain anything from it.

There are of course certain things that are just a big no-no, whatever the intent:
-Premature / liberal use of the L-word.
-Texting / calling ten times a day.
-Constant availability.
-Never applying your own terms and conditions.
-'I don't mind, you choose' (poor decision-making / drive).

Otherwise, I don't really live my life by what the internet tells me I can and cannot do.

Things I have done in the recent past, that are classically 'forbidden', and still maintained frame:
-Bought drinks.
-Bought presents.
-Poor body language.
-Paid compliments.
-Sickly sweet, cutesy pleasantries.

I get away with these things because there's no spurious (nice guy) intent nor expectation underpinning the behaviour; and, the other 80-90% of the time, I'm naturally cool calm and collected.

The nice guy is acting in someone else's frame of reference, trying to pass his sexual desires off in the guise of good intentions. The successes of the solid guy and the so-called bad-boy, both arise from self-centredness, and make their intentions crystal clear from the start. This, and only this, is the nice guy issue, in a nutshell.

You get away with this stuff because VALUE trumps everything.

Its stupid to think you have to be Superman or do everything perfect like a robot to be attractive to women. Total BS. I've had success with sloppy and careless behavior and been rejected after doing everything right. Its true that intent can shine through and if a woman senses you are putting on some kind of clown show to attract her she will respect you a lot less.

Women have diverse definitions of VALUE though.

 

[Urbanyst]

Women want a strong and convicted man that other girls will be jealous of her having. However when they become exclusive she wants that man to become a beta b**** and run and control everything including him. When this isn't allowed there are problems and then the woman then bails and runs to other orbiters for attention.

Yeah, unfortunately today's culture and climate teaches women that relationships are all about them. Once they lock a guy down, they expect to get their way at all times when it comes to the big stuff. They will throw the guy some scraps like letting him watch sports and go out with his friends once a week, but otherwise she is in charge and makes all the rules lol.

Its why I can't make a LTR work here in the West. My view of what a woman should be and how a woman should act is not what the West produces. To me, these people are not real women and not worth my commitment, trust or obedience in a LTR.

 

[doctor1996]

Yeah, unfortunately today's culture and climate teaches women that relationships are all about them. Once they lock a guy down, they expect to get their way at all times when it comes to the big stuff. They will throw the guy some scraps like letting him watch sports and go out with his friends once a week, but otherwise she is in charge and makes all the rules lol.

Its why I can't make a LTR work here in the West. My view of what a woman should be and how a woman should act is not what the West produces. To me, these people are not real women and not worth my commitment, trust or obedience in a LTR.

Agreed

 

[exhausted]

Yeah, unfortunately today's culture and climate teaches women that relationships are all about them. Once they lock a guy down, they expect to get their way at all times when it comes to the big stuff. They will throw the guy some scraps like letting him watch sports and go out with his friends once a week, but otherwise she is in charge and makes all the rules lol.

Its why I can't make a LTR work here in the West. My view of what a woman should be and how a woman should act is not what the West produces. To me, these people are not real women and not worth my commitment, trust or obedience in a LTR.

Absolutely correct.
I have a good career. My own home. Good savings in the bank. Raised a kid entirely on my own. Have my head on straight.
My exgf ltr of 3 years lives at home. Had a chit job until a year ago. Has failed everything in life. Is a half time mom. Has no money saved up. Tons of bills. However, wanted me to sell my home to get a bigger home when she couldn't even help. Then was mad at me when I said no. So she wanted me to sell my 3br 2bath full finished basement with beautiful pool table , rec room and workout room, 2000 sq ft home and get a doublewide with her just so she could CONTROL where we lived. She wanted to downgrade remarkably just to control the home!!!!
She Wanted to control the money when she is irresponsible with money and has none.
She Never went to church ever, i did weekly my whole life, yet she wanted to control the church, have me leave mine and go find a new one with her.

These women today are raised spoiled brats to the fact they don't know they are idiots.

What the F is wrong with American women???

 

[doctor1996]

Absolutely correct.
I have a good career. My own home. Good savings in the bank. Raised a kid entirely on my own. Have my head on straight.
My exgf ltr of 3 years lives at home. Had a chit job until a year ago. Has failed everything in life. Is a half time mom. Has no money saved up. Tons of bills. However, wanted me to sell my home to get a bigger home when she couldn't even help. Then was mad at me when I said no. So she wanted me to sell my 3br 2bath full finished basement with beautiful pool table , rec room and workout room, 2000 sq ft home and get a doublewide with her just so she could CONTROL where we lived. She wanted to downgrade remarkably just to control the home!!!!
She Wanted to control the money when she is irresponsible with money and has none.
She Never went to church ever, i did weekly my whole life, yet she wanted to control the church, have me leave mine and go find a new one with her.

These women today are raised spoiled brats to the fact they don't know they are idiots.

What the F is wrong with American women???

I wouldn't marry an American woman. I'd mess around with some.

 

[exhausted]

I wouldn't marry an American woman. I'd mess around with some.

Cosign that.

 

[exhausted]

I wouldn't marry an American woman. I'd mess around with some.

It is one thing to be outrageous, it is another to not even know you are the problem.
These girls are worthless.

 

[Red Legg]

I wouldn't marry an American woman. I'd mess around with some.

I wouldn't marry ANY woman...they are the same the world over,you would know this if you did any traveling.

 

[doctor1996]

It is one thing to be outrageous, it is another to not even know you are the problem.
These girls are worthless.

I don't like to assume, but I feel like you're right, they're too lazy to do anything and feel entitled. They are lazy, don't know the definition of hardwork, like to "party" at the age of 35-40 lol. Manipulative; have multiple children with multiple men. Break off a "relationship" with all of 5 men. But the woman isn't aren't the problem, they are! American woman are all like this.

There are some that are the opposite of this, but that's difficult to find. That's why every girl I tried to talk to is an international at my university. Because they're more attractive, and smarter. They don't feel entitled to anything.

 

[doctor1996]

I wouldn't marry ANY woman...they are the same the world over,you would know this if you did any traveling.

I did traveling. I've been to turkey, Cyprus, England, Germany.. And the women weren't exactly the same. Where did you travel?

 

[exhausted]

I don't like to assume, but I feel like you're right, they're too lazy to do anything and feel entitled. They are lazy, don't know the definition of hardwork, like to "party" at the age of 35-40 lol. Manipulative; have multiple children with multiple men. Break off a "relationship" with all of 5 men. But the woman isn't aren't the problem, they are! American woman are all like this.

Towards the end my ex made a comment about not wanting her mom to know she can cook because then she will be expected to do it. I said you are 30 years old and a mom you should be cooking for your kid everyday. What a lazy bum.
She literally went out to eat fast food every single work day the last 6 months. Disgusting.

 

[doctor1996]

Towards the end my ex made a comment about not wanting her mom to know she can cook because then she will be expected to do it. I said you are 30 years old and a mom you should be cooking for your kid everyday. What a lazy bum.
She literally went out to eat fast food every single work day the last 6 months. Disgusting.

Household values are lost, respect is lost. The world is going down the drain.

 

[Red Legg]

I did traveling. I've been to turkey, Cyprus, England, Germany.. And the women weren't exactly the same. Where did you travel?

I have been to over 70 countries in the military and as a civilian,and I have found that with running game woman are all pretty much the same,there is no golden vagina dude..wake up.As a matter of fact women outside the US are more manipulative because their poor poverty stricken asses have to be...

 

[exhausted]

Household values are lost, respect is lost. The world is going down the drain.

Values.
Morals.
Standards.
Empathy.
Effort.
Boundaries.
Honor.
Loyalty.
Respect.
Appreciation.

All are nonexistent as these women have been raised spoiled, entitled princess brats.

The days of a woman wanting to be a good women, gf, wife, human being are long gone.