"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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That is incredibly basic bvtch advice anyone could have come up with
That is incredibly basic bvtch advice anyone could have come up with
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Self Improvement is key, combine that with realizing one's true purpose and talents and you've struck Gold.
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Sounds like Gamisch...
Been saying this since forever.
My " game " is 100% internal game. Some men trying to force things ,but all it does is it will give you lackluster results. You can feck 1000 women while your life is chaos and at the end chaos is what remain...
Or you can take one or even two steps back to make 4 steps ahead...
I find no honor in fecking women who are down bad, no ambition ect. I want to grow. And the more I'm growing, the better results I'm getting...fax
Been saying this since forever.
My " game " is 100% internal game. Some men trying to force things ,but all it does is it will give you lackluster results. You can feck 1000 women while your life is chaos and at the end chaos is what remain...
Or you can take one or even two steps back to make 4 steps ahead...
I find no honor in fecking women who are down bad, no ambition ect. I want to grow. And the more I'm growing, the better results I'm getting...fax
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.