"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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marijuana, it ruins your game

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wow we have no school today so last nite i was at a party with this girl ive been goin after for awhile every was goin good i decided to tell her ill be back in a bit cuz i was talkin to her for like 10 min. so i go to talk to my buddies for a lil bit and we decide to get ripped. i had 2 joints to my head, a blunt between 3 people and 3 bowls...oh my god was i ripped...i could not spit anythin at her i was a $hit show. complete mess. dont do this it ruins ur game.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how logn have you been smoking? I've been smoking a few years and i smoke A LOT at parties and I don't seem to realize any diffrence in myg ame infact i think it helps my game cause if a girl turns me down i just laugh it off lol...
 
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Smoking is bad. Reduces bloodflow to the moneymaker causing problems downstairs.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your smoking lowers your sex drive (but you probably don't notice it, you just want weed), and by the time you're 30, you'll be lucky if you can still get it up.
 
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I dis agree. I know a guy, more DJ then myself, and he smokes quite alot of Pot, and he is soo good with the chicks. Speaking of which, I am going to go drinking with him, so I might get a chick later. lol. He's good friend to have.
 
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Originally posted by 08aisaac
I dis agree. I know a guy, more DJ then myself, and he smokes quite alot of Pot, and he is soo good with the chicks. Speaking of which, I am going to go drinking with him, so I might get a chick later. lol. He's good friend to have.
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MEDICLY pot is very bad for your game it slows your reflexes, thinking and limits blood to your mr :) however that doesnt mean it doesnt completly RUIN your game but just retards it. as 08aisaac said some guys have GAME and the weed doesnt effect it to much becouse frankly they are THAT good.

Yet in general weed does hurt your game. ( can be used to seduce girls but personly i avoid messin w/ girls who are high or drunk, moraly)
 
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smoking only lowers your sperm production if you smoke stems + i get hard to easily so mabye i should keep doin it
 
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SoSuave.com and it's affiliated sites does not condone the use of mariajana or other illegal drugs.

And neither do I. So don't smoke.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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