"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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marijuana, it ruins your game

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wow we have no school today so last nite i was at a party with this girl ive been goin after for awhile every was goin good i decided to tell her ill be back in a bit cuz i was talkin to her for like 10 min. so i go to talk to my buddies for a lil bit and we decide to get ripped. i had 2 joints to my head, a blunt between 3 people and 3 bowls...oh my god was i ripped...i could not spit anythin at her i was a $hit show. complete mess. dont do this it ruins ur game.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how logn have you been smoking? I've been smoking a few years and i smoke A LOT at parties and I don't seem to realize any diffrence in myg ame infact i think it helps my game cause if a girl turns me down i just laugh it off lol...
 

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Smoking is bad. Reduces bloodflow to the moneymaker causing problems downstairs.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your smoking lowers your sex drive (but you probably don't notice it, you just want weed), and by the time you're 30, you'll be lucky if you can still get it up.
 

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I dis agree. I know a guy, more DJ then myself, and he smokes quite alot of Pot, and he is soo good with the chicks. Speaking of which, I am going to go drinking with him, so I might get a chick later. lol. He's good friend to have.
 

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
I dis agree. I know a guy, more DJ then myself, and he smokes quite alot of Pot, and he is soo good with the chicks. Speaking of which, I am going to go drinking with him, so I might get a chick later. lol. He's good friend to have.

MEDICLY pot is very bad for your game it slows your reflexes, thinking and limits blood to your mr :) however that doesnt mean it doesnt completly RUIN your game but just retards it. as 08aisaac said some guys have GAME and the weed doesnt effect it to much becouse frankly they are THAT good.

Yet in general weed does hurt your game. ( can be used to seduce girls but personly i avoid messin w/ girls who are high or drunk, moraly)
 

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smoking only lowers your sperm production if you smoke stems + i get hard to easily so mabye i should keep doin it
 

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SoSuave.com and it's affiliated sites does not condone the use of mariajana or other illegal drugs.

And neither do I. So don't smoke.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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