"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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marijuana, it ruins your game

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redbullfbu

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wow we have no school today so last nite i was at a party with this girl ive been goin after for awhile every was goin good i decided to tell her ill be back in a bit cuz i was talkin to her for like 10 min. so i go to talk to my buddies for a lil bit and we decide to get ripped. i had 2 joints to my head, a blunt between 3 people and 3 bowls...oh my god was i ripped...i could not spit anythin at her i was a $hit show. complete mess. dont do this it ruins ur game.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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toddC

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how logn have you been smoking? I've been smoking a few years and i smoke A LOT at parties and I don't seem to realize any diffrence in myg ame infact i think it helps my game cause if a girl turns me down i just laugh it off lol...
 

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Smoking is bad. Reduces bloodflow to the moneymaker causing problems downstairs.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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pimpfromdayone

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Your smoking lowers your sex drive (but you probably don't notice it, you just want weed), and by the time you're 30, you'll be lucky if you can still get it up.
 

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I dis agree. I know a guy, more DJ then myself, and he smokes quite alot of Pot, and he is soo good with the chicks. Speaking of which, I am going to go drinking with him, so I might get a chick later. lol. He's good friend to have.
 

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
I dis agree. I know a guy, more DJ then myself, and he smokes quite alot of Pot, and he is soo good with the chicks. Speaking of which, I am going to go drinking with him, so I might get a chick later. lol. He's good friend to have.

MEDICLY pot is very bad for your game it slows your reflexes, thinking and limits blood to your mr :) however that doesnt mean it doesnt completly RUIN your game but just retards it. as 08aisaac said some guys have GAME and the weed doesnt effect it to much becouse frankly they are THAT good.

Yet in general weed does hurt your game. ( can be used to seduce girls but personly i avoid messin w/ girls who are high or drunk, moraly)
 

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smoking only lowers your sperm production if you smoke stems + i get hard to easily so mabye i should keep doin it
 

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SoSuave.com and it's affiliated sites does not condone the use of mariajana or other illegal drugs.

And neither do I. So don't smoke.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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