"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Marijuana, and Game

Epicwinguy

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Is it good or bad for game?

I know it can make a person feel more confident, chatty, think in new ways, and it can help you meet others who are into it, including girls.

That being said I know some guys shut themselves away from the world when they get into pot and I know it can hurt your testosterone.

So is it good or bad for game?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is it good or bad for game?

I know it can make a person feel more confident, chatty, think in new ways, and it can help you meet others who are into it, including girls.

That being said I know some guys shut themselves away from the world when they get into pot and I know it can hurt your testosterone.

So is it good or bad for game?
Some use it as a bridge to get to females who smoke... I don't know about game, but if your around a party crowd being the "weed guy" has some benefits.
 

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Not my scene, so I really couldn't tell you. However, one could argue it does go against self-improvement...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My personal opinion on weed is that its ok if you are having it from time to time. Like < once a month

What i would say is that ive known a fair few people who have been "heavy users" and all of them have been low quality, and that's male and female.
 

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It make me shut up and kills my libido... a big no no for me but everybody is different.
It's not about depending on it... it's like salt... or running shoes...
You don't need salt on your french fries... you don't need running shoes to run... but it helps! ;)
It should be treated exactly like alcohol. If you drink/smoke and drive, you got issues. If you drink/smoke a lot everyday.. same.
If you do it to forget about something, you got issues. If you do it for social aspect, every once in a while, you're good to go.
 

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As a general rule, weed and women don't mix.

Women tend to hate me when I'm high. I look and act weird generally, especially if I haven't smoked in a long time and then smoke for a few days in a row.

That said, if your girl truly enjoys it and you have quality medical grade, a tiny amount can be an aphrodisiac . Don't do it to the point your eyes get red. I dated one girl and we almost always smoked a little after sex, and then after we smoked we always had sex again. Incredible sex.

Some girls will smoke but still frown upon it. I had one girl who would f*ck like a rabbit for 2 hours every time we smoked, and then one day she asked "Why do you always want to get me high?"

It can also be a good way to connect with a girl and hang out, say if she's a waitress and you sneak out to her car to smoke.
 

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I've had my fair share of experience with stoner chicks.

They're all crazy and have deep rooted issues. The Hippy music festival ones are the worst. Those ones generally do like 30 other psychedelics. They look sexy and are total freaks in the sack but don't ever get exclusive with one.

I don't smoke weed and I feel it's the reason why I've missed out on some potential lays with them. Don't tell these girls that you smoke. Let them ask and find out themselves. They want a stoner dude but don't want them to openly admit it without being asked.

They like the dudes who aren't open with themselves, look kind of insecure, but are confident. Even though they're generally the complete opposite of that.

As far as helping your game... Not sure... I know some guys that drink until they have a buzz but never smoke to pick up girls.
 

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hat being said I know some guys shut themselves away from the world when they get into pot
That's me. Mj gets me totally introverted.
The best you can use for gaming are all those stimulators (coke, speed, mdma) or alcohol.
I used to be a total stoner. It definitely did harm my performance, also killed my reputation in university lol.
In the long run you get much better at socializing when totally drug-free
ps i dont advocate use of any drugs:rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The younger the girl.. the more appealing it will be.

Hot young women in general love drugs. Most of them know a guy who hooks them up with some kind of drug.

Don't forget that the days of "proper women" are pretty much over. If you meet a woman who is strictly religious and hates all drugs she is likely a big stick in the mud and not very hot.
 

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Yep...

I've akways felt like The World's Gift to Women while buzzed on weed. Sex in my opinion is 10xs better.
Interesting. Works opposite way for me. So much going on unside my head when I am high distracting me from sex.
 

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Confidence is not an emotion. It's a mental foundation aka mindset. Any feeling would be satisfaction stemming from your foundation.

Weed, will only enhance this, from my expirience.
 

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Weed effects everyone differently. I smoke weed but usually only in the evening. I don't like to be high all day. I never smoke before dates or before going to the bar. It kills my game when I'm high. I get all quite and just sit there.

I've dated girls that smoke weed. It's fun smoking with them and banging. I can last longer when I'm high. My last girlfriend smoked and we would have great sex while high lol.
 

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Confidence is not an emotion. It's a mental foundation aka mindset. Any feeling would be satisfaction stemming from your foundation.

Weed, will only enhance this, from my expirience.
Been waiting on someone to say this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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