When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Cuz it gets attention and money, pretty much what you need in the entertainment businessFairShake said:What is he, a woman?
This song strikes me as very female-ish.
Why dedicate any time to a psycho ***** like Mariah Carey anyway?
worship said:Bleh Eminem makes me sick... biggest sell out piece of sh1t.
Actually Eminem looks weak after this, almost like a scorned b*tch. He's overly emotional and engaged in the whole discussion. Remember how fighting females is like competing in the special Olympics? in the end you're still retarded.Ganondorf said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That wasnt a Dre beat sweetheart. Mariah Carey is an industry wh0re....everybody's been in that sh!t. Plus Nick Cannon is a gold digger. Smart for him though.iqqi said:Mariah's diss was better because she didn't have name names or be that obvious, nor did she have to swear or result to nasty language. Plus she used a Dre beat.
You see how mad he got.![]()
do you even know what a sellout is?worship said:Bleh Eminem makes me sick... biggest sell out piece of sh1t.
iqqi said:Mariah's diss was better because she didn't have name names or be that obvious, nor did she have to swear or result to nasty language. Plus she used a Dre beat.
You see how mad he got.![]()
snackwitch said:First of all, Mariah is not a rapper.
Secondly, this is not a diss. A diss would be between peers who are trying to put each other down. Just like a boxer punching out a heckler in a crowd would not be a "fight."
Thirdly, it doesn't matter if Eminem thinks Nick is gay, not cool, or whatever. Mariah seems to like him fine enough. Actually Nick is doing the right thing by not responding to it. Eminem ends up looking weak trying to huff and puff so much and getting so worked up about this. So she doesn't want to admit she had any relations with him, so what? He ends up looking like a douchebag with issues who overreacted over this.
Look at this way, who is more emotionally invested in this "argument" between them.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I give eminem mad props for being a Detroiter who became big in the rap game and bringing spotlight to the urban sprawl that it is and doing it while being white.Negative_Nancy said:I doubt em cares all that much. He barey is even serious
Em acts out like this all the time. He's always calling someone out and trying to start sh1t, it's what he does. that's him
the man still pulls tons of ass though, as evident with Mariah and all, so in the end Em is just doing what he does best, which is startin sh1t and actin out
Em's best stuff comes out when he's angry at the world
Yeah and I started to listen to him in grade 5. Since then it's been a steady decline into mainstream faggotry.Julian said:Eminem came out when you were in like 3rd grade. STFU