Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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many years since ive spoken with her

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Hi. A few years ago, I was in a serious relationship with a woman I loved. We were engaged and planning to get married. We even told each other we'd love forever. To make a long story short, some misunderstandings arose and we broke apart. She then changed her mind about marriage and said she wanted to just finish her university studies. I haven't heard from her since and I don't have her phone number. So I recently sent her a few e-mails after several years of no communication. I am a man of my word. I need closure. What should I do? Is it realistic to think I can get back with her or should I just forget her and move on?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You can't get closure from someone else. It must come from within. Acceptance.

Also, see the BPD thread.
 

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has she emailed you back?

If she has...then maybe the door is slightly ajar for a reconciliation. If not...she has moved on. In which case you should too.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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CasanovaProtege said:
Hi. A few years ago, I was in a serious relationship with a woman I loved. We were engaged and planning to get married. We even told each other we'd love forever. To make a long story short, some misunderstandings arose and we broke apart.
She realized she really loves pvssy.

Wait. If that were true she would've stayed with you. Rest assured a few guys are resting their balls on her chin and asscheeks. I'm sure she's full of loving thoughts of you as she swallows each load.

She then changed her mind about marriage and said she wanted to just finish her university studies. I haven't heard from her since and I don't have her phone number.
Already answered.

So I recently sent her a few e-mails after several years of no communication. I am a man of my word. I need closure. What should I do? Is it realistic to think I can get back with her or should I just forget her and move on?
After a few years you're still pining after a chick who's slurping down chunky-style tossed salad. Says everything we need to know about what you really are.

A pvssy. A bleeding tampon in a sore vagina isn't as wussed out as you are kid.

Perhaps you can join your Mother and swap loads?
 

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KarmaSutra said:
She realized she really loves pvssy.

Wait. If that were true she would've stayed with you. Rest assured a few guys are resting their balls on her chin and asscheeks. I'm sure she's full of loving thoughts of you as she swallows each load.



Already answered.



After a few years you're still pining after a chick who's slurping down chunky-style tossed salad. Says everything we need to know about what you really are.

A pvssy. A bleeding tampon in a sore vagina isn't as wussed out as you are kid.

Perhaps you can join your Mother and swap loads?
Harsh but true.
 
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