"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Manual Labour

search1ng

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Alright guys, so Uni is out for the next few months and I managed to get a manual labour job through a friend for the holiday. (Her father is the manager or w/e)

Anyway, I'll be working with steel, etc. And i was just wondering what kind of effects this will have on the body? I've got a builder friend that hits the gym with me and he's a lean, mean functional machine. However, the type of body movements manual labourers engage in are obviously different.

So what i want to know is what are some general good side effects and bad side effects that can occur in relation to this type of work. Aside from the money i'll be making.

Also, my plan is to still hit the gym 4-5x a week as usual. Will this work allow me to throw out cardio apart from the occasional bball game/lap swimming?

P.S how much can i expect as a starter @ 20 yrs of age?
edIt: I'm in Australia
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ThreeStorms

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Manual Labour will always give you an advantage over those pussified computer workers like myself :D
 

Julius_Seizeher

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Manual labor kicks ass! I grew up on a farm, that was nothing but sore muscles and sweat. Then in college I worked for my family building houses. Now I'm Mr. Cushy Financial Guy, but I miss getting my hands tore up and gettin 'er done.

Good thing I came home this weekend, I'm gonna go cut firewood and put a tractor back together!
 

Fuglydude

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Manual labor rocks!! The muscles and movements you doing manual labour are very different from movements that most people do in the gym. Adding variety to the activities you do is very beneficial for making progress. Just be cautious about overtraining. I certainly wouldn't be going to the gym 4x a week if I was doing heavy manual labor 40-50 hrs/week.

You're young, so your metabolism is likely pretty high. If you're doing 8-10 hrs/day of heavy manual labour you'll have a tough time eating enough calories to grow. You will be able to loose fat rapidly and get really well conditioned.

Overall manual labor is a great part of an active lifestyle but due to level of physical activity required you'll have to eat A LOT to get enough calories to put on significant muscle. However, you shouldn't have any issues getting lead/conditioned.

Good luck.
 

search1ng

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Sweet, I'll be eating protein as everything as usual via bars, natural meats, etc. But one of my main goals apart from earning some cash was to get ripped for summer. (It's summer in Aus now) Sounds like this will help out heaps, then i can worry about bulking once winter or something comes around.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jocca

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Lucky. I'm actually thinking that same thing and am also from Australia. Cant seem to find anyone to hook me up though which is annoying.
 
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