"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Manual Labour

search1ng

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
546
Reaction score
8
Alright guys, so Uni is out for the next few months and I managed to get a manual labour job through a friend for the holiday. (Her father is the manager or w/e)

Anyway, I'll be working with steel, etc. And i was just wondering what kind of effects this will have on the body? I've got a builder friend that hits the gym with me and he's a lean, mean functional machine. However, the type of body movements manual labourers engage in are obviously different.

So what i want to know is what are some general good side effects and bad side effects that can occur in relation to this type of work. Aside from the money i'll be making.

Also, my plan is to still hit the gym 4-5x a week as usual. Will this work allow me to throw out cardio apart from the occasional bball game/lap swimming?

P.S how much can i expect as a starter @ 20 yrs of age?
edIt: I'm in Australia
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

ThreeStorms

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 15, 2002
Messages
288
Reaction score
2
Manual Labour will always give you an advantage over those pussified computer workers like myself :D
 

Julius_Seizeher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 25, 2009
Messages
1,233
Reaction score
76
Location
Midwest
Manual labor kicks ass! I grew up on a farm, that was nothing but sore muscles and sweat. Then in college I worked for my family building houses. Now I'm Mr. Cushy Financial Guy, but I miss getting my hands tore up and gettin 'er done.

Good thing I came home this weekend, I'm gonna go cut firewood and put a tractor back together!
 

Fuglydude

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2006
Messages
1,541
Reaction score
50
Location
Alberta, Canada
Manual labor rocks!! The muscles and movements you doing manual labour are very different from movements that most people do in the gym. Adding variety to the activities you do is very beneficial for making progress. Just be cautious about overtraining. I certainly wouldn't be going to the gym 4x a week if I was doing heavy manual labor 40-50 hrs/week.

You're young, so your metabolism is likely pretty high. If you're doing 8-10 hrs/day of heavy manual labour you'll have a tough time eating enough calories to grow. You will be able to loose fat rapidly and get really well conditioned.

Overall manual labor is a great part of an active lifestyle but due to level of physical activity required you'll have to eat A LOT to get enough calories to put on significant muscle. However, you shouldn't have any issues getting lead/conditioned.

Good luck.
 

search1ng

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 28, 2008
Messages
546
Reaction score
8
Sweet, I'll be eating protein as everything as usual via bars, natural meats, etc. But one of my main goals apart from earning some cash was to get ripped for summer. (It's summer in Aus now) Sounds like this will help out heaps, then i can worry about bulking once winter or something comes around.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

jocca

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 7, 2007
Messages
189
Reaction score
3
Lucky. I'm actually thinking that same thing and am also from Australia. Cant seem to find anyone to hook me up though which is annoying.
 
Top