"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Manti Te'o

R

RiceandChicken

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 14, 2012
Messages
258
Reaction score
1
Location
N/A
I feel for the guy. He got h0ed big time here. I mean the guy actually thought he had a girl friend named Lenay kakua. He thought she died of leukemia, weeks after his Grandmother died. Two days later is when this story broke loose, I lol'ed because how can someone be this stupid and go through all this. Btw, he met the 'chick' online. Guess you could figure out how things went from there. I'd like yall's thoughts on this. Honestly, I think it's dumb and he's dumb as hell for even trying to find a girlfriend online. Full story is below--->

http://espn.go.com/general/blogs/blogpost?blogname=notre-dame-football&id=13549

Source: Espn.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

F

FairShake

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 8, 2008
Messages
2,405
Reaction score
306
Either he is an incredibly naive island kid who just got taken by savvy azzhole mainlanders or he is gay and just had his beard shaved off. Either is sad when you think about it.

Personally I do think he was taken for a ride. Interviews I've seen with the kid seem like he is naive and could be fooled pretty easily when it comes to things like sex and relationships. But he obviously got caught up in the story and started lying to make it sell better.
 
R

RiceandChicken

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 14, 2012
Messages
258
Reaction score
1
Location
N/A
So Shake, you think he is just going through all this by lying in order to make the story sell better? Hm, interesting assumption indeed. And sage, you seem to have the same belief as well. Idk, I do have my doubts I'll admit that. But honestly...why the F would he be lookin for a girlfriend online anyways!? He's 22-23, got a car, a job I assume, getting ready for NFL in the fall, what in the F. He can easily find a girlfriend on/off his campus. So the fact he is even trying to find one online weather he knew she was a fake or not is truly truly pathetic.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

U

Upside

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2008
Messages
397
Reaction score
16
Location
I'm still looking
This guy clowned the media and clowned the public with his clown story?

He's in on it. I don't care what the ESPN and Notre Dame spin machine says. This guy got ***** on the side and he's still trying to act like this fake person meant something. Give me a break.

Unless he gets in front of a camera and without a lawyer, his story means ****.
 
R

RiceandChicken

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 14, 2012
Messages
258
Reaction score
1
Location
N/A
Um. A little skeptical eh upside? Well I don't blame ya brah. I am beginning to think that this Te'o story is bull. Te'o obviously the master mind behind it. Looks like ESPN and the rest of the other huge networks/medias' feel for it. Big time. But I don't want to jump to conclusions. I'm going to keep watch and see where this goes, especially as NFL combine looks closer and closer.
 
Fatal Jay

Fatal Jay

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 26, 2012
Messages
1,719
Reaction score
114
dude is lying, you know how many hot girls go to notre dame

why would he do online dating over those chicks
 
R

RiceandChicken

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 14, 2012
Messages
258
Reaction score
1
Location
N/A
Oh yes they are bible Hahaha. And idk Fataljay. Haven't heard of anything of him lying...but he is becoming a bit skeptical to be honest with ya. I'm beginning to not believe a dam* thing Te'o is saying.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

S

sageproduct

Banned
Joined
Sep 18, 2009
Messages
984
Reaction score
28
Location
Chicago
WTF

The truth??? WTF WTF WTF Honestly I find this to be less believable than the earlier reports.

Some fwckin loaded Notre Dame booster is paying this Ronaiah Tuiasosopo guy a damn fat wad of cash for pretending to be gay on national TV. Either that, or he actually is gay and hopelessly in love with Te'O that he'll do anything to protect him.

HOW THE FWCK DO PEOPLE THINK MANTI TE'O WASN'T IN ON THIS. ARE YOU FWCKING KIDDING ME. Just the way his father acted in all this should be an OBVIOUS tip-off. Manti Te'O got SCAMMED? Fwcking kidding me. I talked to my coach today, and he was like "Yeah just imagine how many girls are going to try to take advantage of him when he's in the NFL now that everyone knows he's gullible"

FWCK Notre Dame. Wealthy fwckers controlling the media. ACtually know what? I can't even blame them because the public is so goddamn stupid to actually believe this sh1t. Not going to shoot the shepherd for herding sheep

Thanks for posting BB.

EDIT: Reading/watching some more stuff on the matter, yeah I'm confirming by beliefs further...

The subtitle for the whole incident should be What Would You Do For A Heisman? And you know what although this makes me lose respect for Te'O himself, I'm not judging the guy, sometimes you have to go to extreme lengths to get what you want. I do think that the main instigator of this whole plot is still someone who has yet to be named, someone who is older, smarter, and understands certain things like the media. Te'O fwcked up by agreeing to go along with this, and it totally still is fault. He's an adult now responsible for a decision like that no matter how convincing whoever the instigator was was.

Or is there something big that I'm totally missing? Anyone care to shed some light on why it's actually reasonable that Te'O did get scammed and was not in on it?
 
R

RiceandChicken

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 14, 2012
Messages
258
Reaction score
1
Location
N/A
Well then. That's a surprise indeed, thanks for the share BB. To think Manti wasn't in on this, eh, I should slap my self a bit for thinking he wasn't involved on how this 'hoax'. And ya I'd like an answer to Sage's question as well, I'm really interested. Waiting on the insight bros.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top