You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This is kinda true but not an absolute..
This is partly true. Nice guys are using those methods in the illusion that they are the ones who manipulate the female . So in the end they are the ones getting manipulated by the women. As you said ,depending on the circumstances the nice guy will react either to change and become a bad guy or become a dj or stay the same for the rest of their lifes.
Poon King called you a beta.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lol, it's hilarious how stuck you are in the alpha/beta mindset (which studies have proven to be false, prestige trumps all)
Cry more, b!tch.lol, it's hilarious how stuck you are in the alpha/beta mindset (which studies have proven to be false, prestige trumps all)
when it comes down to it, you really think you're a big bad "alpha" when you spend some of your free time whining about how terrible women are on a forum about being more successful with women?
but anyway, im about done here as this forum in general is stuck too much in the "alpha/beta thinking." I'm more in the camp that being fun, in shape, dressing well, respecting yourself matters way, way more than all these subconscious psychological theories the guys here believe in. attraction is not much of a choice, and women aren't any worse than men in the grand scheme of things.
read this: http://markmanson.net/content/PDFs/Butchering_The_Alpha_Male.pdf
anyway, what do I know? I am just a little weak beta male that is controlled by women
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