"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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manic depressive-what are they like-is it safe to associate with them -would u

joe45

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i met this guy that i use to go to church with a while ago. .

i met him up again randomly 4 years later at the public library ,we talk and chat and later he tells me he has a mental illness, and says hes manic depressive. one thing about this guy is -he talks very very fast and talks a lot a lotttt, tells me he has this crazy business idea and wants me to join in, says he nows barack obama and arnold schrwargger and has their number on his cell, think he can make millions doing some business idea. he lives in government social housing and has a speical colored bus card that i never seen before, and told me governemtn pays him each month money since hes on disability. he doesn't have his grade 12 and hes in his late 20's. i ask him to finish HS,but he said hes ,more intersted in creating his own business and talks about his dreams

what i am asking is i go to library a lot , do u think its safe to still talk to this guy once in a while or should i just ignore him completely. should i even hang out with him like i did before 4x's. he tells me he has to go home before 4 since thats when they serve dinner at his social housing place. i mean i didn;t now what manic depressive was. he told me he has it.

but even before telling me his illness, i knew something was wrong with this guy-his speech-talks too much and sooo fast and the stuff he says-dreams like he will be rich millions and make jobs for america.....and driving ferrarais

i just want to now how safe-would he harm me or do something crazy to me.would u talk to someone like this. ii mean what would u do, continue saying hey to him and talk to him,but not hang out, or hang out less or not at all. what would you do
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ditch him, even if he is a hot H.B. 10!

The rule here is, "Don't trouble trouble until trouble troubles you." Then you ditch him again.

-Chuchu
 

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Well I think 80% of people have some sort of "mental" ilness by societys standards so if you think he's cool then i see no reason to not hang. But if you piss him off be careful people like him have retard strength...
 

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He sounds like he's high on going very manic. in a mild mania (hypomanic) people get euphoric, high self conficence, very social, talkative. Mania is the overload of that. Dude thinks he can conquer the world. Best would be for him to get medicines, he may harm himself if he gets too manic, spend all his money do stupid things and idiotic plans. You may see him swap back to depression in a few weeks/months then he will be the opposite, slow low self confidence etc. Manic depression is not anything like bordeline, in mania he may make stupid desicions but unless you do business with him no unsafetly for you. If he is cool stay friends, if you think you cannot handle it leave. It is not dangerous to talk to him.
 

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cola said:
Well I think 80% of people have some sort of "mental" ilness by societys standards so if you think he's cool then i see no reason to not hang. But if you piss him off be careful people like him have retard strength...

what do you mean by retarded strength??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dude no im manic depressive 2 along with acute paranoia and some other things and all this does is get me ddown about myself alot. dont ditch him cuz he has that its not gonna affect you just know that there will be times when he wont wanna chill or will dip out cuz something hit the switch to turn him from happy to sad. it happens really quick but its not like bipolar disorder those people you wanna stay away from cuz they can go from happy to sad to pissed off to happy again in like 5 mins...
 
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