"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Manhattan women with no car

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I normally turn these women down and don't give them a second look. However, the last few are late 20's, smoking body and HB9+. I'm a little perplexed on what to do here. Since, I'd have to do all the driving, they have no car. Plus tolls, parking and drinks add up in Manhattan. Way hotter than the women in NJ, LI or Westchester.

I've not seen a chick in Manhattan in several years towards this. Ideas? Suggestions? Open to options here.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I normally turn these women down and don't give them a second look. However, the last few are late 20's, smoking body and HB9+. I'm a little perplexed on what to do here. Since, I'd have to do all the driving, they have no car. Plus tolls, parking and drinks add up in Manhattan. Way hotter than the women in NJ, LI or Westchester.

I've not seen a chick in Manhattan in several years towards this. Ideas? Suggestions? Open to options here.
uber?
 

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Would they pay for that? You need to get over bridge to come to my pad. That's why NYC women are so hard to date. Prob. is even for a drink, you have 10 for the toll, 30 for the parking and 40 for the drink. So the first meet is at min. for me 80 bucks. Even if I took the train in, it's still around 70 bucks.
 

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Public transportation?
 

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Would they pay for that? You need to get over bridge to come to my pad. That's why NYC women are so hard to date. Prob. is even for a drink, you have 10 for the toll, 30 for the parking and 40 for the drink. So the first meet is at min. for me 80 bucks. Even if I took the train in, it's still around 70 bucks.
As you just stated everything is pricey there. When they live in city, apartment costs are sky high also. That’s why they don’t do the additional vehicle costs and rely on public transport, walking, or cabs.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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True. So how does a man see or date women who live in Manhattan? Since the women I see outside of Manhattan only last, at most 2 - 4 months, and it takes around 3 dates for sex; how does one manage this?
 

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True. So how does a man see or date women who live in Manhattan? Since the women I see outside of Manhattan only last, at most 2 - 4 months, and it takes around 3 dates for sex; how does one manage this?
The best way is to live there. It’s a self contained expensive place. Other than that, pay what it’s worth to you to date them, or adandon the idea.
 

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The best way is to live there. It’s a self contained expensive place. Other than that, pay what it’s worth to you to date them, or adandon the idea.
I have no desire to live in Manhattan. I lived there in my 20's. Wasn't crazy about it. I already own a house in Westchester. I happen to prefer a house over a condo or apt.
 

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I have no desire to live in Manhattan. I lived there in my 20's. Wasn't crazy about it. I already own a house in Westchester. I happen to prefer a house over a condo or apt.
Well in your location scenario they probably won’t come to you. Too many single men in the city for them. You will have to go there.
 

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Funny think is they reached out and messaged me, I didn't reach out and message them. That's what's so peculiar.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If she lives in Manhattan, she has money. Lots of people in new York dont have cars. There is no need for one, and certainly wouldn't disqualify a woman for that.
 
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In order to game girls that live in Manhattan that don't have cars, you have to read the book...

"How to Game Girls That Live In Manhattan That Don't Have Cars" by John Washington

It's a 500 page guide that details every rule.

It's the sequel to his book, "How To Game Girls That Live In Manhattan That Do Have Cars"

But these rules WILL NOT work in Philadelphia.
 

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If she lives in Manhattan, she has money. Lots of people in new York dont have cars. There is no need for one, and certainly wouldn't disqualify a woman for that.
Perhaps. I just think meeting somewhere else outside of Manhattan would be a prob. Looking for women to have sex with eventually, not explore the city. I am very well verse in the city. Lived there for 20 years. Manhattan, Brooklyn and Queens.
 

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In order to game girls that live in Manhattan that don't have cars, you have to read the book...

"How to Game Girls That Live In Manhattan That Don't Have Cars" by John Washington

It's a 500 page guide that details every rule.

It's the sequel to his book, "How To Game Girls That Live In Manhattan That Do Have Cars"

But these rules WILL NOT work in Philadelphia.
Funny... Surprised you didn't use the name Notch Johnson.
 

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Funny think is they reached out and messaged me, I didn't reach out and message them. That's what's so peculiar.
What kind of Manhattan woman is getting tired of the day to day grind and wants to move in and start a family with an already settled in provider in the burbs ?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What kind of Manhattan woman is getting tired of the day to day grind and wants to move in and start a family with an already settled in provider in the burbs ?
It's rare any person wants to stay in Manhattan unless you live on Central Park West and have oodles of dough (or credit).
 

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Funny think is they reached out and messaged me, I didn't reach out and message them. That's what's so peculiar.
Be selective. They are likely in potential lock down mode.
 

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Honestly who in their right mind owns a car in Manhattan?? Nobody i know does.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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