"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Managing plates

chath

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I got a little out of control here and now I'm spinning 7 plates. How do you guys keep track of them all? One is good for a workout buddy+random dates, one seems to be only available Thursdays and Sundays, another I'm pursuing as a long term prospect(her and one other determines my availability to the others), etc.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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narcissist

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To many in my opinion.

3 is ABSOLUTE max. 2 is the best.

You have to have at the VERY LEAST 4-5 days during the week to be pursuing YOUR goals.

Juggling 7 girls seems like it would be taking away from QUALITY time spent on your hobbies/goals/education/reading/working out/meditating etc., etc., and ultimately becoming a better man in other aspects of life.

If girls come in between your path of perpetual betterment and hinder the progress of your goals/aspirations by taking up too much of your time, then you have too many and are wasting precious time by slaving over vag. Spend your time creating a legacy and have a b1tch or two on the side, and you will be more happy on your death bed knowing that you did something worthwhile in your life rather than toiling over pussi.

p.s. nice covert brag thread ;)
 

chath

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Well I can say that I'm certainly not letting them get in the way of my hobbies/gym/work. The best I can describe it is they are "accessorizing" my life. I think I answered my own question in my head so maybe a mod can close/delete the thread. I need to think out loud sometimes.

I think the bottom line is a few of them were on their way to wanting to be "exclusive" and maybe were under the impression that they were the only one? So they became a bit needy and I can't simply hold all these pointless smalltalk conversations over text etc.
Before it was easy because we only talked right before/after we went out or did something. Now it's "so how was your day" or constant selfies.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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El Payaso

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