"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is a question for some of the experiences folks out there. So I am divorced and very single now but I also have kids and a great job. I do not want my cell phone ringing off the hook from various girls that have been nexted, I have had that issue before. Ideally I would like to not give my real direct cell phone number out but this causes an issue because I cannot text message.


I am just curious how you can freely interact with the ladies and give them a phone number if they ask but not be bothered by them all hours of the night and during times where you wish they would not call. Or how else might you handle the situation?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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go to www.vonage.com get a soft phone and forward to cell. you can manage the forward feature from anywhere you have access to the net. Turn feature off when you don't want calls to your cell. Great feature too you can a list to see who called you and when they called you. luv it!

Pablo QueRico
 

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Thaniks! Actually I do have Vonage and think I am going to do that. The only downside I guess is text messenging. But you can just tell people you don't receive text messages or something I guess.
 
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