"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Managing a Harem

typical

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Hi,

I've been gone for yet again a long time and have been actively trying to plate spin (career/gym and 3 girls) and have spent the last year creating a harem of girls.

Now my question is how do I maintain the girls without compromising my setup, all three are good looking university educated and between 20-25 and I'd like to keep them for a few years if not more.

P.S Thanks rollo for your wise threads here and your take on plate theory on RM, it works.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Desdinova

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It's unlikely that you're going to keep them for a lengthy period of time. When you don't commit to one plate, she'll likely spin off the table. However, you can always replace her with another one.

Managing more than two women is a lot of work. Throw in the necessity of keeping a social circle to have a steady stack of plates for you to pick from, and you've got a life with no hobbies and no housework.
 

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Dear Typical,
"Two girls are too many,threes a crowd and four you're dead"...certainly keeps you on your toes,never give too much time to one...It gets easier as you get Older,your skills are better developed and their are just soo many homebound Women around.
 
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