"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Managing a Harem

typical

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Hi,

I've been gone for yet again a long time and have been actively trying to plate spin (career/gym and 3 girls) and have spent the last year creating a harem of girls.

Now my question is how do I maintain the girls without compromising my setup, all three are good looking university educated and between 20-25 and I'd like to keep them for a few years if not more.

P.S Thanks rollo for your wise threads here and your take on plate theory on RM, it works.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Desdinova

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It's unlikely that you're going to keep them for a lengthy period of time. When you don't commit to one plate, she'll likely spin off the table. However, you can always replace her with another one.

Managing more than two women is a lot of work. Throw in the necessity of keeping a social circle to have a steady stack of plates for you to pick from, and you've got a life with no hobbies and no housework.
 

Scaramouche

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Dear Typical,
"Two girls are too many,threes a crowd and four you're dead"...certainly keeps you on your toes,never give too much time to one...It gets easier as you get Older,your skills are better developed and their are just soo many homebound Women around.
 
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